Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

Im 20 yrs old, i live with my parents they are very over protective. I have a BF adn we plan to get married but he lives in north carolina now and i live in oregon. My parents will not allow for me to go with him they say its not right, But we really care for each other and i am tired of being afraid of what my parents will say or do. so my question will be how can i tell my parents that i want to get married and move to North Carolina with my boyfrined?

2006-10-18 07:43:56 · 17 answers · asked by erika d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do u believe that men appears as d bigger liars bec. they do it like amateurs while women do it like professionals? (relationships matter)--

2006-10-18 07:41:57 · 15 answers · asked by i crave yours 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My name is roxy, I'm 20. I met a guy not too long ago in a chat room and we hit it off. I got his number and we started talking over the phone and texting. About a month ago I got a call from this girl and she told me that she was his girlfriend of 3 years and they just got an apartment together. She told me she was in love with this guy and wanted to marry him. She asked me if I'd stop contacting him and I said I would. I haven't stopped yet. I fell in love with this guy. I want him to leave her and come be with me. He doesn't really talk to me anymore. I try to call and text him but I hardly get a response back and its usually short and brief. He says him and his girlfriend are celebrating their anniversary on Oct. 19th and he is thinking of asking her to marry him. I can't let that happen. I want him to be with me not her. How can I get him to leave her for me? How can I stop him from asking her to marry him?

2006-10-18 07:41:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with my boyfriend almost a year weve had a few ups and downs but i love him more than anything,hes 30 and im 25 im in no rush for kids or marriage but also im not getting any younger he finds it hard telling me he loves me and i tell him everyday!he uses the excuse that its a man thing?also i talk about kids and getting married in the future and he says he's not ready i cant believe hes not thinking of the future at 30 yrs old?i dont like to stay with a man who is with me just for the moment i feel its a big waste he knows how i feel about this.so what can i do?

2006-10-18 07:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by nikki 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently got a new b/f he is the sweetest nice guy i have ever meet. and times hes seems kinda jealous and to attached to me. but before him i was single for about 4 months and now I sometimes miss my ex and still think about him time to time and i still wear a\a ring that my ex gave .my new b/f doesnt know he gave it to me. but my new b/f is 10 times better then my ex but why do i still think of him?

2006-10-18 07:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by Dreamer 2 in Singles & Dating

Not that I must add that I think any parent walking out on their children is at all the right thing to do - I have a gorgeous 2 year old daughter and cannot imagine ever not wanting her in my life or not waking up each day feeling blessed..

That said her biological father has done nothing for her..not that she has missed out - I do everything and more to make sure that as far as possible she won't suffer because of his decision..

The reason I ask is that there is a programme on tonight on beeb2 about women who walk out on their children..whether the trailer is representative of not I don't know but the impression was given that the women who left were such awful people - and by contrast the single Dads almost heroic.

As a single mother who works hard I sometimes feel there is a double standard with single Dads given more support (from female relatives/pals) and more recognition. Just my view and since single Dads make up only 2% of all lone parents this seems unfair..

2006-10-18 07:40:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Your favorite Pub Buddy has been sick :(.....so Pub has been out of his normal "frisky" routine....Now my "boys" are starting to ache...is that from my cold or do they need to "release" there Pub making power??...and if it's the later, who's up for a quick fix?...Yes I have a cold...but you don't have to face me :)

2006-10-18 07:40:02 · 4 answers · asked by Pub Buddy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 07:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in college, im 18, my parents don't approve of any of my coices and i don't want to upset them. i recently broke up with my boyfriend months before i asked my first question. i can't choose whether to be with guys or girls, PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-18 07:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by blue_princess_angel1492 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 07:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by cowchic9 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like most guys prefer the skinny girls.

2006-10-18 07:39:11 · 43 answers · asked by ANGEL 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been w/this guy for almost 2yr. and about 6mon. ago I moved away...and i love him more than anything....but I feel like i am dating the phone...we talk about 3~4 times a week but idk what to do....and on top of that I met this other guy who lives like 3min. away and he so sweet!....and I can't help but wonder how nice it would be to date a guy who I can acuatly see and hang out with. but i kno that i am gonna miss my current boyfriend!

2006-10-18 07:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by Invisible 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is a girl (we are 15, im a guy). Everyone is always asking if we are going out or saying I like her or she likes me, theres almost always a rumor going round. Why is this? Does boy/girl best friends always look like this? We are both single if that matters.

2006-10-18 07:38:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started dating a friend last December. Dated, broke-up, got back together, then broke up again because he says he didn't wanna cheat and now he just moved in with a woman whom i was battleing for his affection with. His cowardice astounds me because it was not him who told me, it was his Mother! I'm still friends and friendly with his family, they love me... But the contact with them drifts me back to the pain of the situation... It's been a month and things are better than before, but my mind drifts about him... Is he gonna marry her? How come he could commit to her? What if she gets pregnant? It's kinda like self torture. I can't stop it.... Question: What do i do? How can i stop the mental beating?

2006-10-18 07:38:08 · 16 answers · asked by Bianca 3 in Singles & Dating

do you think i will find som1 else that loves me? stupid really but anyway... just askin...

2006-10-18 07:37:50 · 17 answers · asked by cillahblues 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 07:37:47 · 7 answers · asked by schansack87 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the difference?

2006-10-18 07:37:17 · 3 answers · asked by Lucero 4 in Friends

I was wondering is it possible to be that plastered(as in drunk) to pass out then some one sha gg you without you even new they did it????

2006-10-18 07:37:11 · 10 answers · asked by hineycone1987 2 in Singles & Dating

I am very much in low with out fiance but I seem to be getting cold feet. Is there a normal level of doubt a person should have before a wedding? Am I just worrying to much or should I take this as a sign that maybe I am not ready?

2006-10-18 07:37:02 · 7 answers · asked by BlondeBarbie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so me and this girl have been best friends for 3 years...then one day i told her i was gonna sit with my other best friend erika at lunch for one day and she freaked out! she wrote me a letter saying alot of bad stuff "shed been bottling up" ..i was pissed! and then today she sent me a letter saying ho w much she loves me and how much shes sorry, i was like "awwww" lol but "someone" told me not to beleive it and w/e. do i 4give her or what?!

2006-10-18 07:36:50 · 24 answers · asked by Woman. 1 in Friends

I am just really curious what the majority of you ladies consider cheating. To be specific what is the line that you don't want your man to cross.

2006-10-18 07:36:37 · 23 answers · asked by Paka 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister is having a wedding soon...she is buying her flower girls pearl charm bracelets with their initials, and is confused on what to buy the 6 yr old ring bearer...any thoughts on a nice gift that she could get him...thanks!

2006-10-18 07:36:30 · 19 answers · asked by leslie b 2 in Weddings

after two years of dating because he decided to marry my best friend!!! what am i supposed to do! i totally loved this guy!

2006-10-18 07:35:17 · 28 answers · asked by Dulceata 3 in Singles & Dating

I can never get a boyfriend. I believe i am very beautiful and easy to talk to. I'm not to controling, and love having fun ,even if it's just hanging out with his friends. I'm funny and don't have any annoying habits. Any advice?

2006-10-18 07:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by asprinfree_braindamage_please 2 in Singles & Dating

i put to much milk in my dads cup of tea and he went off the head saying to my 20month old daughter i was a physco mum

2006-10-18 07:35:12 · 21 answers · asked by Rach 2 in Family

I am from Dubai & I really feel that girls here do not value their friends & relationships , they are much more bold & they think relationships are crap & just a waste of time thus fiding a gal to settled in this part of the world is extremely difficult
Do u agree with it?????????
I am a young dashing guy with good looks, 26 years old with good salary & personality , i belong to a well settled family from New Delh & came here 2 years back

Comments from People will be very much appreciated,especially girls & ladies

2006-10-18 07:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by hotchocredrose 3 in Friends

2006-10-18 07:34:53 · 9 answers · asked by Supposedly Pregnant But Not 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 9 years. No children together. I have two grown kids from a previous marriage, and 5 grandchildren ages 16 - 8 years old. During the past, he was verbally abusive, but I told myself it's because he has MS taking several different pills. Lately though it's gotten worse. If I go to the store he calls me at least 10 times, and asks me who I'm with, am I having fun giving someone a B___J. Last week we were at my daughter's house, I got up to use the restroom, when I opened the door to come out, he was standing outside of the door, asking me who I was talking to. (I've never cheated by the way). I went to a Dr.'s appointment today, he was mad because I said that I would go by myself. He called me constantly until I got to the office, and timed me, how long it took me to drive home. Then he told me not to bother coming home, that I should go and give my boyfriend what he wanted. I'm so stressed. I don't want to live with my kids. I start a new job next week.

2006-10-18 07:34:50 · 14 answers · asked by Nor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This relationship is very domanationg, controlling and mentally abusive. However one of my other friends is totally crushing on her and she likes him. What should she do and how should I help her.

2006-10-18 07:34:33 · 15 answers · asked by Redneck Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE 3 BROTHER AND 3 SISTER I KNOW 1 OF MY BROTHER AND 1 OF MY SISTER CAUSE WE HAD THE SAME MOTHER. NOW THE OTHER 1 BROTHER AND 1 SISTER I MEET BEFORE WHEN I WAS ABOUT 8 YEARS OLD ONE TIME ONLY SO I DONT REMEMBER MUCH BUT THE OTHER 2 I DONT KNOW THEM AT ALL NOT EVEN THEIR NAMES. MY FATHER PASS AWAY 13 YEARS AGO HE STOP TALKING TO ME WHEN I WAS 16 YEARS OLD . I WANT MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS TO BE TOGETHER AT LEAST 1 TIME.

2006-10-18 07:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by only1nani30 1 in Family