Ladies! What do you consider cheating?

Question

I am just really curious what the majority of you ladies consider cheating. To be specific what is the line that you don't want your man to cross.

Answer 1

Here's the line: No kissing, no oral sex, no groping, no sex, no talking dirty over phone or internet, no masterba*ion with each other, no meeting behind my back to "talk", no going to her house to hang out unless i'm invited as well and no sitting on my husbands lap for any reason!!!

I think that is pretty clear to me

Answer 2

I've heard this and I feel it to be true. If you put yourself in a situation that could possibly be hard to get out of or lends to temptation, then it's cheating or foreplay to cheating.

If my man looked at porn every now and then, while I don't want to know about it, I don't really feel it's cheating, when he goes to the booby bar and pays another woman to take her clothes off for him, I think that's pretty borderline.

Also you need to take into consideration the woman, if your woman is not happy about certain behaviors, then it's up to you whether or not you respect her enough to fill her wishes. Some women will go with you to the strip joints, some will allow you a 3 way, or phone sex whatever, some women wont even let you look at porn... like I said, depends on each woman.

Answer 3

there is a very fine line men should never cross when either in a relationship or married,in both you should be monomagus to the one you are with,if it is not working out,then get rid of her first before venturing on to another,9 chances in 10 will eventually get caught one way or another.if you love someone you don't cheat on them for any reason.I have been married 3 times all ending in divorce except last one he passed away,but have been in many relationships where the guy would take me out and end up with another woman have the date and expect me to put out nope no way man go to her.

Answer 4

Cheating =s: Talking excessively with on the phone or email or otherwise - in a flirtacious manner, kissing under any circumstances, meeting for lunch or dinner (for anything other than business)...unless it's a long established friendship well known by his girlfriend. Going to bed with her should be a given..yes..that's cheating..duh.

Answer 5

Personally, I would consider any physical contact cheating. Kissing, fondling, anything that was sexual in nature. I don't consider flirting cheating because everyone's definition of flirting is different.

Answer 6

i think it's different for everyone. If my bf goes out to a club i don't think he should dance with another girl, I think it is a violation. Internet sex is cheating. talking to another person on the phone sexually is cheating..Kissing someone else is cheating. my guy gets a little jealous if i hug another guy i feel the same.

Answer 7

If my man does anything (even just talk with another woman) that he is unable to tell me, then it's cheating. Relationships need honesty.

Answer 8

I think there are many forms of cheating, If your significant other doesnt know what your doing when shes not there. If you keep it from her, thats cheating, All relationships shoulod be completely open, your supposed to talk to your love about EVERYTHING- even if it hurts- communication is the key

Answer 9

well this is a good question. i could list lots of things that i think is cheating then i could go and do something (which to me would be innocent) but to my partner would be cheating. so apart from the bloody obvious sleeping together any sexual acts i think you need to talk to your partners to see what they think is cheating.

Answer 10

Any type of physical sexual contact. This includes kissing, touching, oral sex, the whole nine yards.

Any type of emotional, intimate bonding would probable get me too.

Even after 10 years of marriage, he would be out the door in a second!