I am very much in low with out fiance but I seem to be getting cold feet. Is there a normal level of doubt a person should have before a wedding? Am I just worrying to much or should I take this as a sign that maybe I am not ready?
2006-10-18
07:37:02
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BlondeBarbie
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doubt stems from the way we met-which was online. We became close friends, chatting about love and life etc, That was in December. In March he came to me in tears, terrified I wouldnt want anything to do with him. He told me when we met he was engaged to a woman he had been with 3 years, That she was trying hard to change who he was,constantly beating him down, said he was very weak/not himself and presured into marriage he did not want. He said our talks made him see that he was making a huge mistake, he did break if off completely with her before he told me which I respect. I forgave that and our relationship blossomed. He came to me in May, I went to him in June, again in Sept, he will be here for xmas and I plan on returning to his country with him. We have spoken in length about this. when I snoop, I find letters between them and its clear that he wasnt happy n didnt want to marry her. He calms all my fears quite well but I have this little voice of doubt, help me shake it plz
2006-10-18
08:02:38 ·
update #1