Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

I have a friend.We have been best friends since we were in diapers.But since we came into middle school she has been ignoring me and been sitting with other people and has no time to hang out with me.Should I still be her friend or not?And she has been using me for all the wrong things.

2006-10-15 02:02:57 · 14 answers · asked by Ayan O 1 in Friends

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2006-10-15 02:02:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a guy that's a senior asked me out to a party with him and his friends house. i've liked him for a really long time. he just turned 17 the other day and i'm 14. he's really sweet, and kindof quiet. we started talking because he doesn't have his liscense yet and we both stand by the same spot everyday waiting for someone to pick us up.
i asked him why he doesn't have his liscense yet, and he says it's because he's been arrested twice. but only for little things, i promise.
so should i go to this party at him? do you think he'll try anything? because i actually want a relationship with him, i really like him.

2006-10-15 02:00:13 · 20 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Singles & Dating

a reunion later,will you go?

2006-10-15 01:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he wants to give me a facial, does that mean he thinks i have bad skin?

2006-10-15 01:57:42 · 28 answers · asked by fluffer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 01:57:26 · 14 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband went to a strip club behind my back and exchanged emails with a stripper to supposedly invite her to poker tournaments. They started emailing eachother and then she and her husband started getting into our inner circle of friends. Then, she started babysitting our infant.
Then, one day I found nude pictures of the stripper in my husbands email box(2 years later).
I confronted him about this and he doesn't think what he did was that wrong? I had no idea about any of this. They swear nothing sexual happened. they said they just playfully flirted with one another and they have both apologized. I don't know what to think of all this and to top things off, my best friend is also my hubby's best friend and she knew about alot of this stuff and didn't tell me b/c she didn't want to get in the middle of it. I don't know whether to forgive my husband and/ or my supposed best friend. What do you think????

2006-10-15 01:57:08 · 26 answers · asked by lc123 2 in Friends

I've been going through various child custody and visitation cases over the last several years. My ex stopped paying for our child's daycare he enrolled him in and then broke into my house as retaliation for leaving him. But every since I brought him to court (checks now garnished) I've been in constant conflict with him. During the course of these years I've completed my Bachelors and Masters Degrees. I've since been offered a lucrative job in a state 7 hours away. I have full physical custody but we have joint custody as well. I know when I bring him to court he is going to fight me.
The current support isnt enough and the move will allow a greater level of stabilitly, security and allow me to purchase more home than I can currently afford in my current state.
My ex has been threatening to sue for full custody...I am more than a fit parent I purchased a home at 23 now 30, I am in the PTO and church activities, I love my son. Does he really have a chance in taking my son from me?

2006-10-15 01:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by Ladyd2576 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 01:54:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well some guy liked me at uni hes in my class...he used to call me all the time and made it very obvious he did.he told me.well i brushed him off and said no way would i....in a nice enough way....i then maybe might have said sumthin to hurt him but i only said it cos he kept pestering me to like him...and i said i didnt etc...
so i said why dont we be friends....he said `you dont have any value to me as a friend ` and since then he has not called me or anything....if he lied me that much he couldve been my mate right??
he was a nice enuff guy to be mates with and now i dnt have it.....
now at uni he doesnt even look at me.....
whats going on....??

2006-10-15 01:54:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anybody out there think it is a double standard for a guy to want to watch tons of porn/girls masterbating,stripping,ect (alot being taped webcam videos that were once live) but if there girlfriend/lover decides to profit off of what so many girls are doing and so many guys are watching buy doing live webcam herself, he then has a problem with it? Doesn't it make sense that women should be profiting off this web type erotica? Especailly if she's wiiling to share the $$$ with him? I understand that performing live chat could be considered cyber sex since there is chatting involved but is it really that different then going to a porn site and choosing which girl,playing with what ever sextoy who happens to be a webcam performer? I just dont get it! My man sees nothing wrong with watching 1,000's of women masterbate why should I consider his feelings if I choose to be one of them while bringing in some extra cash? I feel like its a double standard.

2006-10-15 01:52:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well not the "date" like the guy/girl you go with but what you would do on the date

2006-10-15 01:51:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was with her for a short time and she said she needs to be alone.
2 weeks later she is with this guy and he dosent even like her and i love her and i feel so bad for her.
i got into lots of toble for her

2006-10-15 01:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by cyclon613 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My oldest son is a senior this year. We have always been close and he has never given my any problems until now. He tells me no and to shut up and seems to think he doesn't have to do what I say. Disrespectful to me but not his father. What is a mom to do to keep control at this point in his life?

2006-10-15 01:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by Susan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know she loves me, but I dont know if she thinks of me as boyfriend material.
How should I go about raising the issue? Should I?

2006-10-15 01:48:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Earn a lot good looking gr8 family still the girl i love says we are two very different people and cant get along. I am ready to take her for what she is , accept all her conditions. still she says we are different cause i was the first one to propose her. do girls like men who make them run after them .

2006-10-15 01:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by ak56 2 in Singles & Dating

when our mom died me an my bro we were seperated. The thing is we still live in the same neighborhood but i live with my dads step wife my bro lives with my dad.
My dad's ex is a total bich she hates my bro and he didnt do annything to her were are extremy attached but he told me yesterday that he has loved me since 6th grade even though he is sixteen and i am fiffteen. he loves me soooooooo much that wwhen i was so called " sleeping" he kissed me i did nothing to prevent this from happening i m scared to tell my mom well the person whith is taking care of me. Since she hates my bro i have no to turn to except u readers help.

2006-10-15 01:46:21 · 23 answers · asked by nicegirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am very jealous when he is talking to other girls and we argue when were on a night out because im so jealous when really pretty girls talk to him and he can see it bothers me he says hes only talking to them but to me he looks like he is flirting! help!

2006-10-15 01:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by vicky_js23 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-15 01:44:14 · 8 answers · asked by geoff w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 01:43:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 01:42:38 · 9 answers · asked by revello 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 01:41:52 · 2 answers · asked by tintin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they
carried us.



They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes.



Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright colored
lead-based paints.


We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we
rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took
hitchhiking.


As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.



Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat.



We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.



We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE
actually died from this.



We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soda pop with sugar in it, but
we weren't overweight because

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!


We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back
when the streetlights came on.



No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.


We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down
the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the
bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no
99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell
phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat
rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no
lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays,
made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang
the bell, or just walked in and talked to them!

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't
had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They
actually sided with the law!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers
and inventors ever!

The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned

HOW TO
DEAL WITH IT ALL!


And YOU are one of them! CONGRATULATIONS!


You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as
kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good.

and while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?!

2006-10-15 01:41:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-15 01:40:45 · 4 answers · asked by loukas f 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, and were both involved with career and other activities...we are both single, and when we met we talked on the phone often. Now it seems i was doing most of the calling. So I backed off to see if he will call...its been 2wks and i have called once to leave a message. He did call me back and we tried to hook up this past Friday when we got off work. Well he was suppose to call me when he got off from work, well he didnt i had to call him and it was like 9pm when i decided to see what happend...he was so apologetic and I nudged it off like i just woke up, it aint that serious...then he says we will hook up sat. or sun.....well its sunday he did not call all day yesterday, but am i mistaken isnt that just common curteousy, I mean we are not in love or committed to each other. So should i call and tell him he is no valuing a simple friendship or just wait until he calles me and then tell him.

2006-10-15 01:40:30 · 14 answers · asked by CeKaye L 4 in Friends

I am a muslim boy and she is a hindu girl. we became friends very soon & spent a lot of time chatting with each other especially at the canteen.we are staying in hostels. But due to the starting of ramzan i was not able 2 communicate her often bcoz our interval timings become different. After her class college bus will come within 5 minutes and she will left for the hostel. The only time which we get is our lunch time. But as i am taking fast i am not able to chat at that time also. Meanwhile my roommate get touch with her and soon they became intimate friends. When she left 4 Bangalore for a tour 4 one week she called him from the station and also send some friendly messages but she did not call me nor send any messages. when i complained her about that she replied that she did not get time to do so. I became angry and ask her that she had the time to call him but not me, she replied that if i am thinking her to be an insinciere friend then its ok. I also treat u like that.

2006-10-15 01:32:51 · 3 answers · asked by shamailsa 1 in Friends

2006-10-15 01:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by alex_tea7 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a muslim boy and she is a hindu girl. we became friends very soon & spent a lot of time chatting with each other especially at the canteen.we are staying in hostels. But due to the starting of ramzan i was not able 2 communicate her often bcoz our interval timings become different. After her class college bus will come within 5 minutes and she will left for the hostel. The only time which we get is our lunch time. But as i am taking fast i am not able to chat at that time also. Meanwhile my roommate get touch with her and soon they became intimate friends. When she left 4 Bangalore for a tour 4 one week she called him from the station and also send some friendly messages but she did not call me nor send any messages. when i complained her about that she replied that she did not get time to do so. I became angry and ask her that she had the time to call him but not me, she replied that if i am thinking her to be an insinciere friend then its ok. I also treat u like that.

2006-10-15 01:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by shamailsa 1 in Friends

2006-10-15 01:27:37 · 24 answers · asked by x1 2 in Family

Plus we I have a child from a previous marriage and he has three, so we have to consider their feelings as well?? Just don't ever want to go through another divorce, but I feel such love for this man beyond what I have ever felt for another man before. How do I know if this will work??

2006-10-15 01:25:49 · 14 answers · asked by Christy L 1 in Singles & Dating