I have a friend.We have been best friends since we were in diapers.But since we came into middle school she has been ignoring me and been sitting with other people and has no time to hang out with me.Should I still be her friend or not?And she has been using me for all the wrong things.
2006-10-15 02:02:57 · 14 answers · asked by Ayan O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
drop her like a bad habit and move on, im sure any friends you make will be better than her.
2006-10-15 02:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend owes you an explanation.
At your age, and even at any age, people come and go in your life. Your friend may be experiencing a need to be accepted by other people, she already knows she has your acceptance.
On the other hand, this is not a nice thing to do to a lifelong friend. She owes you either an apology or an explanation, perhaps both.
If this does not happen, then you may need to cut the strings, and engage yourself with other people. You are young, honey. This may be your first experience of this happening, but I am 34, and it has happened to me many times. People come and go in our lives, that seems harsh to say to you, I know, but it is true. You will find someone to be your best friend again. What your friend is doing to you is not nice at all. But, perhaps she does not want to hurt you by telling you she has moved on, and does not realize that her actions are what is really hurting you. I hope you can find a way to make things better for YOU, not for her, but for you...
2006-10-15 09:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by rach_cast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not really your friend. The least you could do is ty to talk to her. The crowd she's hanging with now is probably a bad crowd and she wants to be cool. so try to talk to her for a minute and if that doesn't work, i'm reall sorry but you should leave her along. HAVE THE BEST TIME AND MIDDLE SCHOOL, YOU'LL MISS IT WHEN YOU GET TO HIGH SCHOOL!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-15 09:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's growing up. Changing.
She may change with you in her life, or she may not. No, she didn't use you. When you were younger you were indeed friends. That was genuine, but when people grow, they change. Their thoughts, and their perception of themselves in the world changes.
Continue to be her friend. If she includes, you, great....do it, if not, you can talk to her and see how things are, but she may end up saying goodbye to you. Prepare yourself for this. It may happen.
2006-10-15 09:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to alot of early childhood friendships. It's a natural part of growing up. Sometimes we outgrow the friendship. I'm sorry, move on.
2006-10-15 09:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to realize you guys are growing up and your interests may not be the sane any more you may not like the kinds of friends she has chosen for herself but that certainly doesn't mean she is not your Friend if you feel like she is using you then you should speak up about it maybe she needs to reevaluate her values on a true friend
2006-10-15 09:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by mel b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Friends do not treat other friends like this.Don't talk to her or talk to her about what u did or what's happening that she is treating like this.Then u could work things out
2006-10-15 09:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by WhOahh :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her is there any reason that you have drifted apart. Why nt suggest you do something you enjoy together....maybe a movie or shopping.
2006-10-15 09:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by marcus p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodbye,goodriddens,piss off etc.
Dump her like a bad habbit:you grew apart from eachother.
She used you?
No,you let her use you.
Get a life will you?
LET HER BE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 09:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just normal frienships
2006-10-15 09:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by shaikhmohdmusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋