Does anybody out there think it is a double standard for a guy to want to watch tons of porn/girls masterbating,stripping,ect (alot being taped webcam videos that were once live) but if there girlfriend/lover decides to profit off of what so many girls are doing and so many guys are watching buy doing live webcam herself, he then has a problem with it? Doesn't it make sense that women should be profiting off this web type erotica? Especailly if she's wiiling to share the $$$ with him? I understand that performing live chat could be considered cyber sex since there is chatting involved but is it really that different then going to a porn site and choosing which girl,playing with what ever sextoy who happens to be a webcam performer? I just dont get it! My man sees nothing wrong with watching 1,000's of women masterbate why should I consider his feelings if I choose to be one of them while bringing in some extra cash? I feel like its a double standard.
2006-10-15 01:52:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-15 17:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-17 14:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your point. However, maybe he’s just trying to be protective of you. This is a very unseemly & tasteless business. If family & friends (or co-workers!) saw you masturbating on film would it be a problem? If not today what about years from now? These pictures will be in the public domain forever. Is the $$$ worth it? Sometimes I like to view nude pictures of women, most men do, but I would not like to have my wife’s picture out there. A double standard? Yes, but we all make our choices & live w/the consequences.
From your comments it sounds like your SO is viewing a lot of this stuff. Is this a problem for you? If so this seems like a good way to make a point but I would not suggest that you actually do this. If you still think you want to, try posting a picture of yourself topless or nude first & decide how you feel about it. If you do this might want to obscure or blank out your face.
Hope this helps & good luck.
2006-10-15 02:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by Scalawag-101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no double standard here. He's just being honest and decent in not wanting u to do what he enjoys seeing on the net. There is a lot of legal, honest and decent work available if u r qualified. While u r talking about only $s', u don't seem to be understanding the downside to what u r suggesting. It is more important to be respected in the society u live than making easy money. Pls think over it.........
2006-10-15 02:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by skr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it quite is common to observe porn. it quite is common to masturbate. i'm getting this from my acquaintances all of the time- they sense that if their guy is staring at porn, it ability that they don't look to be pleasing him. truthfully, that's commonly not the case. it quite is like saying that of a woman has a vibrator or different intercourse toy it ability that her guy (or woman) isn't pleasing her. not genuine. Masturbation is typical, and porn, on condition that it would not become an dependancy, is high-quality. as long as he's not cheating on you, I fail to work out the priority. I understand objecting to porn on ethical grounds, yet once you guy or lady needs to observe it, you quite can not tell them to not in basic terms for the reason which you do not agree. you are able to communicate approximately it, optimistic, yet in actuality if somebody needs to observe porn and masturbate, they're going to.
2016-11-23 12:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be with you 100% on this.I like where you are coming from. Good luck......I think you will make a lot of money by the sounds of it p.s. Who needs a boyfriend to split the cash. Just go it alone
2006-10-15 01:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by marcus p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between "observing" and "participating". Think of all the violent movies we watch, scary pics, who-donits, murder-mysterys, etc. It's just entertainment. If you jump in and participate then it's crossing the line.
2006-10-15 01:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's different. You are not a strange unkown girl to him. He has PERSONAL feelings towards you. It is not a double standard unless he is doing porn and he doesnt want you to do porn also.
Get the difference?
It's simple.
2006-10-15 01:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is to do with the difference between wh@res and people you care for. He has got you mixed up with the latter. Carry on girl, you were born to do it and after all it is only sex for money xx
2006-10-15 01:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes most men do have double standards about letting their gf or wife to get naked for other men no matter how much money is involved.
2006-10-15 02:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋