Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

(Now i have heard that most women he HAS dated say he is verbally abusive....Now he just says..."NO, i am not. I am a realist..." But it is still abuse.... anyway, one day he is nice to me...the next time he criticizes me and says rude things to hurt me....since he is my ONLY BROTHER....is it best fpr me to A.) stay away from him...cuz he is hurting me whether he realizes it or not...B.) only keep in contact once in a while ...or the least as possible...C.) stay away....until he "gets it"...which will be never...tell me which one you think is best for me to do...and thank you...I am the sensitive type...(which he makes fun of also)...to save face my sister-in-law divorced him due to verbal abuse...BUT tells others ...we got a mutual divorce...it just didn't work out anymore to save face..(.You know how some people are.)...they just love the dirt...it is sad.....

2006-10-15 03:00:14 · 25 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best frnd... a guy....was in relation wid some1...actually he and i became frnds thru tht gal only ...but thn we both ...our frequencies match to such an extent that inspite of the fact that we havnt yet met each other since our frndship of last two yes being in the same city and living in neighboring areas...we share everythng and we read each others mind so correctly....
he tells me everytthng reg his gal and their problems....wch never end..
few days bck they had a breakup coz of somethng , i belive due to my frndship wid him... now he wants to patch up wid her and she asked him a single ques-" do u still share everythng wid her ( vch means me)" and he accepted it coz he does... and they had a fight again...
he told me even this as soon as he finished this tlk with her...
now i dont understand wat i m supposed to do... i mean i know he cant live widout her...so i told him tht " i thnk ur rel wid her is more imp thn yr best frnd" and he dint rep...he isnt rep since last 24 hrs

2006-10-15 03:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by just yrs! 2 in Friends

They have both gone to jail for fighting to protect each other from the system but still they love each other and want to find a way to work things out. Is it possible to love someone that you just can't live with or without?

2006-10-15 02:59:21 · 11 answers · asked by ljames3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

heres the skinny...My wife of three years has left me for a man who she met online. This guy lives in Canada...im in Michigan. She has left with absolutely nothing...she is not even going to be able to make it to the friends of the court hearings. She doesnt have job or anything, and they are already planning to get married and they want to move over here. Dont know if this is after or before their wedding. I have filed for divorce but i dont know where to serve her at..i dont have an adress. She left our child in my care and now she is very pushy about me sending him over there or allowing her new boyfriend over to my house so she can see him. She has mentioned fighting me for full custody...just wondering if the courts will take these drastic things she has done into consideration if this gets ugly...I have steady income and an excellent support system for child care. And there is absolutely no domestic violence on my part. So what do yall think my chances are of winning?

2006-10-15 02:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by babo h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf gave me this hint for my birthday present.
He said its a riddle.
HELP!

2006-10-15 02:57:34 · 8 answers · asked by CindyHoneyy 2 in Singles & Dating

By extended family, im talking about some of my cousins and aunts. Me, my brother, my mother and father have no problems with her dating outside her race. My sister is 33 years old. I feel that as long as he treats her right, i have no problem with dating outside race. And he treats her like a queen.

2006-10-15 02:56:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Richmond Kentucky if you know the area.

2006-10-15 02:56:08 · 9 answers · asked by richmondman3001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am about to post a profile in an online-dating site, and I am not sure what I should be talking about. I would like to ask woman what they think is important to read, because I think is kind of a turn off when a guy is trying to sell himself, I don't like to talk about me, I know I don't have a choice, but I just have a simple question, isn't a turn off when the guy says how great of a job he has, and how cool he is, and how great he is like competing with other guys?. If you ask me, I am the opposite, I have probably done and lived and visited more countries than what those kind of guys say, but I don't like to just show up in people and say it?. If I put my profile and I say "I am just simple", do you think I will have any luck?, or I will have to show up and demonstrate the world I am just a great guy?, what you as a woman think? or even a guy that could help me on this one?

2006-10-15 02:55:15 · 2 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Singles & Dating

Every time i kiss a fella he gets this chin rash and they complain about it being stubbly also they complain that the curtain dont match the drapes

2006-10-15 02:54:12 · 16 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend decided to have a brak til christmas, when i got bk from our hoilday i found out he was txtin another girl and that he had meet up with her a few times, he swore on my baby life that he only kissed and never slept with. im so confussed

2006-10-15 02:52:05 · 23 answers · asked by dizzy23 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you feel like time goes by quicker now that you have grown up/gotten older?

I feel like time is running by at rapid speed now that I have grown up a little. I am 17 years old. It seemed like I was 12 the other day. What happened? It also seemed like it was 2000 just the other day. This last couple half decade have just come and gone as easily as urine down the tiolet. You see it one time, you look back and it's gone. I remember when I was a kid a year really felt like a year. Now it feels like a week. Just a week ago I was a freshman in High School not taking anything serious. But at the turn of a switch now and I have so many worries. What I'll do after high school, where I'll live without momma, getting a car, getting a job, preparing the wya for my kids, nothing worrying about childess beefs and drama, and looking for a serious relationship when back when I was younger all I wanted was sex. It's like I had absolutely no worries back then but issues just caught up.

2006-10-15 02:51:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im a 28 year old male from malaysia. im a physically challenged by polio frm my childhood. i have no parents. im living with my sister's family. due to some family n finacial problem, i couldnt able to do my undergraduation degree 9 yrs ago.

currently im doing degree thru correspondence. at my age, my frns are well settled and earning well. but im not....i feel inferiority complex...i feel lonely......even my sister's family is considering me as a burden...i dont know wat to do.

i feel very much sad, worry and fear thinking about my present n future...pls help me with proper answers.

due to this inferiority complex, fears and worries, i am not able to study well, im not able to concentrate on my positive sides.....i do procrastinate everything i have to do.....i feel very depressed....i have no hope......i dont know wat to do...pls help me

2006-10-15 02:50:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-15 02:50:20 · 22 answers · asked by p51dcpc 1 in Family

all my fiend have girlfrieds and they kiss her evry day iam afraid to kiss her in a wrong way iam 14years

2006-10-15 02:47:29 · 17 answers · asked by happy m 1 in Friends

i want to about my marriage, i will do job or not

2006-10-15 02:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he is 8 yrs older than me..

2006-10-15 02:46:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My wife is spending thousands of dollars on re-doing our toddlers room and getting new stuff for the new baby.. Cuz she’s pregnant. I think she should spend the money on beer for me. Which do u think is more important? I think my beer and she says that its her money anyways so she can spend it on whatever she wants too, cuz I don’t work… but she’s a plastic surgeon so why should I work.. She makes a lot of money. she's going shopping crazy, she's at 4,000 something dollars right now. omg!! thats like a lot of beer.What do u think should happen here?

2006-10-15 02:45:14 · 14 answers · asked by WhatUpWitDat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do u have problem getting well along with them or the friendship just die?

2006-10-15 02:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by galgal 4 in Friends

I know a girl like this and she asked me if she is

2006-10-15 02:43:05 · 10 answers · asked by Blackfoxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I know someone like this and she asked me if she is

2006-10-15 02:41:56 · 6 answers · asked by Blackfoxx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 02:39:58 · 12 answers · asked by DHOOM 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand why people like looking at porn vidoes and movies !! I just don't get it ! It 's discusting ! And really rude !

2006-10-15 02:38:29 · 28 answers · asked by La parisienne ! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 02:37:34 · 24 answers · asked by amarjit_mayfair 1 in Weddings

2006-10-15 02:37:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can u give me good nickname for person who loves chocolate how about cookie or candy?

2006-10-15 02:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by a k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I know that everyone has heard that song by Chris Brown "One WIsh". I'm curious if you could only have one wish what would it be for?

2006-10-15 02:35:30 · 23 answers · asked by pecarican 3 in Friends

i have a nice guy that i am planning on meeting soon from this same city and online.......BUT i have yet another good friend who is right here and "real" if u know what i mean.........and i like him but not sure what to do.....

should I go ahead and still meet this guy?

they BOTH treat me great

2006-10-15 02:31:46 · 17 answers · asked by ~*Nikki*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 32 she's ,well not twice my age but 57

2006-10-15 02:29:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My fiance and I plan to get married Feb. If we decide to elope- it will be on Feb 14. I want to have a small reception wedding, but he just wants it to be me and him. I've been married before but married in courthouse. This will be his 1st. Every time I ask him-like 1x /mnth- he changes his mind. either saying "elope" or "wedding". What should we do?

2006-10-15 02:25:54 · 21 answers · asked by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 in Weddings

changes moods quickly happy around other people and when i try and speak to her i only get one word answers :(

2006-10-15 02:25:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships