me and my boyfriend decided to have a brak til christmas, when i got bk from our hoilday i found out he was txtin another girl and that he had meet up with her a few times, he swore on my baby life that he only kissed and never slept with. im so confussed
2006-10-15 02:52:05 · 23 answers · asked by dizzy23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe she can spell better than you!
2006-10-15 02:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's useless to be with someone who will go astray during ur absence... It juz goes to show that he doesn't care abt u and ur feelings.... Kissing someone else when r attached is a big NO NO.. Can u live with that fact? Will u haf a peaceful mind whenever u r away from him? Can u guarantee tat he will not continue to text tat girl or any other girls for tat matter? R u able to trust him completely again? If ur answers are NO for most of the questions above,then leave him... U need to trust ur partner 100% and once tat trust is abused... U can never trust him/her again... Not completely at least....
2006-10-15 10:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the cheating b*stard, He shouldnt even be texting another girl let alone kissing her, he soon got over you two splitting up. You can bet your bottom dollar he would still be texting her and seeing her if you two got back together.
I found my now ex wife was seeing at least 4 men as i worked away alot, she promised not to do it again... but i say once a cheater... always a cheater.
You would never be able to trust him, All relationships need trust, without it the relationship is dead.
Forget him hun, not worth the hassle.
Steve
2006-10-15 10:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_o3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the break till christmas all about? Either you are an item or not. You need to talk big time and sort things out once and for all especially if there is a baby to consider!
2006-10-15 09:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry darling, but you agreed to have a break, so he could actually sleep with whoever he likes without your say so.
the thing is, you can't turn your feelings on and off like a tap, few of us can. but if he was experimenting with another girl before you decided to have a break, then there is something wrong with the relationship you have with him. you need to find out why he kissed/texted this other girl.
you need to talk to him and see how you both feel about each other, and whether you honestly feel your relationship will work out. otherwise set each other free.
2006-10-15 10:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by swot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,How confussed you are.Deciding to have a break is correct to way to keep your relationship to move on.
Give your suggesstion:
1st,keep alone just one month,i mean don't contact with him,don't thinking of him ,just do yourself.To do your fav things to fill your life.Reading good book ,listening radio.And don't talk to everyone else about your boyfriend issues during the one month 'cuz if you always talk things about your boyfriend ,you don't erase your memory from your mind and you will mad at him hanging out with other girls.I mean don't think of him in one month.
2nd,After one month,you please give him a call,ask him if he is willing to go on our relationship,if he refuse you,ask him why,tell you truth honsely that is foundation.Please make a botton line that he ignores me and even worse will happen to you.
If you win his heart back,i congratulation
if you fail,don't look back,'cuz past can distracts from now.
Time will heal everything.
please move on,you can find a right man.
2006-10-15 10:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by huan huan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the I need time .....space....a break for a while.....syndrome which really means I want to check out the other side of life. Talk to him, if you cannot get to straight talk and good communication then maybe you need to re think the whole relationship.
2006-10-15 18:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are also dyslexic and undecuated. Stick with him, you may never get another. You are probably not going to be able to hold down full time employment so concentrate on making sure he gets all the Oral he wants, were he wants and how he wants and the same for Anal sex, this includes outdoors in cinemas drive in parks etc, also experiment in BDSM and explore group sex stuff. With luck he may keep you and you will have some sort of future xx
2006-10-15 10:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if it was me i wouldn't belive him and to swear on a baby life is so wrong. i know it is very hard to break up with someone who you love or care about but you need to think of what is right for you. it will be hard at first but you will cope and be better off. if you stay you will always be thinking has he slept with someone or is he going to. for him to say he only kissed her is still wrong if it wants you
2006-10-15 10:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kim S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please can we have male babies sterilised at birth, having to apply for reversal to have children when old and responsible enough?
Perhaps then, we would stop seeing so much of this drivel and put Trisha and Jeremy Kyle out on their ears.
2006-10-15 09:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
anyone who swears on anyone elses life is a liar...dump him...you have a baby to consider...swearing on your babies life is a way out for him because he knows you will believe him...read between the lines honey...he's lying, forget him and get on with your life and take good care of your baby....if i were his girl i would have took his stupid head off his shoulders for swearing on your childs life...how dare he, he's a coward, move on darlin, he's garbage
2006-10-15 09:58:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋