Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

ok first off dont make this a violation asshole!!! how come when i make my myspace profile out to be a really sweet and nice and fun guy not one girl will reply or talk to me? how come when i change it and make me look like a jerk and violent and just a bad guy etc i dont even have to write any girls i get tons of e-mails now??? this just proves my point that all girls r hypocrits cause all they do is complain about theres no more good guys out there then they blow me off and go for the jerk.....but when i am the jerk its all good???? i hate that so much.

2006-10-15 03:20:40 · 11 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3 in Singles & Dating

I am not getting any younger , I can lose a dress size but guys still call me sexy, but I only get asked out by jerks. There are two non-jerk guys that have asked me to be their girlfriend.

Guy#1 is 5'7" (I'm 5'9), smokes and his teeth show it, is a teacher (horrible pay, I am not a gold digger but I just don't want to take care of someone else even though I make twice as much), and is 15 years older than me which mean differences in music (I'm Nickleback and he is Otis Redding), art, places to go etc. He is a gentleman, very sweet, attentive, spry, and adores me.

Guy #2
He's 6'0", white (I'm black), has a child, lives with his mom, again I make twice as much, he's 6 years younger, hasn't smoked in two weeks (you guessed it - I don't smoke). He is a little immature but well mannered. Same taste in music, places to go etc.

It has been hard to find those two let alone anyone I can tolerate for a second date. I left my boyfriend of 6 years to move to this new town a year ago.

2006-10-15 03:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 03:19:52 · 18 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 03:18:50 · 6 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

I just found out my husband puts a recorder in my purse. He records me when i'm going to work, on my lunch break, and when i'm coming home from work. He thinks that i'm seeing my ex husband, but i'm not. I love him so much, and i can't see my self with out him. He done this before, and said that he would never do it again. I'm confussed do i leave him, or do i stay? He also thinks that i ride the train with someone, but i don't.

2006-10-15 03:18:47 · 18 answers · asked by fleetwalk60 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi my name is Jen and iam 15 years old , my crush's name is Nick and he plays varsity football.... He was new to my school and he was only in my morning metting room.. So on his first day i said hi and asked him where he was from.. Then he told me if I could show him around school.. so ofcourse .. i did..... Then 2 weeks passed and he saw me cleaning the teachers desk and since then he teases me and calls me Janitor... we usually flirt around by dissing each other but we laugh and we always keep eye contact.. One day we were playing around and he came over to me and said iam going to beat u up and choke u.. but he was just playing... he went over to my desk and put his arms around my neck but it was more like a hug...Then that same day he arrives at my locker in the afternoon and i turned around and i said u freaking scared me so he said oh so u dont want me to be here and i said no i didnt say that.. Then he said see ya around... b/c he knows we live one street away... He asked me if i was going to the football game and i said maybe.. i just dont have no one to go with.. so he said if i wasnt playing in the game i wouldve gone with u to spend time... so then today night was the game and i saw his coach screaming at him but i realized he was looking at me instead of the coach.. so he was staring at me and i stared back......next week.. i was trying to talk to his friend and he kept interrupting me... and i told him your so mean and he said .... Iam sorry.... The he told his friend that i wanted to ask him out.... then his friend said i know who u wanna ask out and he turned red..
Do u think iam the person he likes? but therefore iam not sure if he does b/c he gives me mixed signals.. like today he said ... oh u say hi to my friend but u dont say hi to me.... . well today... i wrote him a note saying if he could encourage me to run. and he said well i have football everyday but ill try. Then he asked his friend and said should I or should i not? and his friend said idk. so then he said maybe on sunday. so i said how will i know? and he said why do u want my number ..... and i said no.... Then i saw him in the hall way and i gave him a note with my #... So what do u think?? he's gonna call or not?
well guess what he called me... and we were getting to know our interest in things... and he wants to come over my house to play video games.... also we were playing around and i was like why dont u make me shut up.. and he said the only simple way of doing that is if id kiss u... and i said why do u want to ... and he said only if youd let me... well we ended up going to a baseball game on saturday... he walked 10 min. just to see me.... and he looked so happy.. he calls me often but idk if he just want me just to feel me or for a relationship... b/c he often talks about how he wants to kiss me... and he told me he liked my personality and that i was pretty... but why do i feel like he just wants me just to play.... b/c also he told me he has had 4 gf's already...

2006-10-15 03:18:05 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 03:17:43 · 13 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend is single. I'm not. And she knows that I usually spend time on the weekends with my husband. I would love to invite her along when we go out, but it's usually akward when it's just the three of us (she and my husband don't seem to get along very well).
Last friday she invited on a girl date, and then my my husband called and said he'd be coming home early and we could have dinner together, so I called my friend back and told her I couldn't go after all. She seemed really pissed off at me for cancelling.
She always seems like she's competing for the time that I spend with my husband. Could it be that she's jealous of him?
I adore my friend, but how can I make her understand that my husband comes first?

2006-10-15 03:17:07 · 12 answers · asked by Peaches M 3 in Friends

2006-10-15 03:16:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone into a talk..............i am really boring

2006-10-15 03:16:34 · 9 answers · asked by Frendlygal 3 in Friends

Do you tell your significant other that you had these dreams? I had great sex last night with my girl, and still had a vivid dream that I was with another girl last night. What does this mean?

2006-10-15 03:16:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 03:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

My neighbor is a stupid frump and she's been dating a guy I like. I did my best.He won't... And my best is the best!He spat in my face.Literally.

2006-10-15 03:15:55 · 17 answers · asked by v í b o r a 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 03:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

Feeds him M&Ms and ice cream all day, drives 30 mins to get McDonalds which he then won't eat, he HITS people and animals and she just laughs and says isn't he cute, he's three, my mom has aged 10 years since they moved in (without asking I might add, and without paying rent). The house is a pigsty, he's written all over the walls with permanent markers, he chased my mom with a knife yesterday, but Sister is very touchy and can be quite vicious when confronted.... Grandma doesn't want to offend... I want to smack the kid and my sister (not necessarily in that order!!!) She is returning to work and leaving the little guy with grandma next week, I fear for my mom's safety (she is 71). I have a 10 week old and a life of my own and can't be there 24/7.

Just venting I guess but any constructive ideas WELCOMED!!! I'm at the end of my rope (and grandma's too!!) and she is planning to stay here for at least six months, WE NEED HELP

2006-10-15 03:14:55 · 6 answers · asked by Samlet 4 in Family

2006-10-15 03:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

do u think he will allow it he goes to church regularly and even prays for me.. he has asked for divine intervention

2006-10-15 03:13:27 · 19 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-15 03:13:04 · 4 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 03:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by snmemerald99 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad fight alot and she said if they dont figure out their problems they are getting divorced i dont want two dads and two moms

2006-10-15 03:11:58 · 11 answers · asked by kk94 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband was unemployed for a period of 18 months. In the process we lost everything. He looked for comfort elsewhere because I think he was ushamed of no being able to take care of us. He left for a period of 4 months in which time he started divorce procedings. Once he had found employment he apologised and asked for forgiveness and asked us to try as a couple again.

2006-10-15 03:10:07 · 19 answers · asked by Roxy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend just broke up with me after a year and four days. He says that he has a lot of things going on in his life and we had been arguing a lot lately so I think that putting that kind of stress on him didnt help him at all. Since the break up I've realized that our fights were over silly things and I'm willing to do anything to get him back. I've tried talking to him about it but he avoids a deep conversation about it and simply answers with "I dont know" or "I just cant right now". I know he's going through a hard time and I want to be there for him but in the mean time I'm dying with heartbreak. I mean, I love him so much. He tells me that he still loves me and "there is always a chance" and one night after I tried to talk to him about it he gave me a big hug and kissed me after I got upset. I feel like we're going back and forth. One day he'll act like he still wants to be with me and one day he'll act like it doesnt really matter. Is there anything I can do to get him back??

2006-10-15 03:09:44 · 12 answers · asked by aimeenicole33 1 in Singles & Dating

Soceity/religion preaches us to be good person every way.
But practically nice guy never win in real world.
so we r hypocrate as reality is diffrent from what i was taught(by my parents/soceity/supporting system)?

2006-10-15 03:09:30 · 4 answers · asked by dilemma 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 03:09:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

you say follow your heart, but always? i am not sure if the one i really like feels the same about me? but there is my boyfriend who i get on well with but dont really "fancy". i havent cheated on him, or two timed and really dont want him to get hurt. and he is kinda cute. but i have totally fallen for someone else who i just cant stop thinking about. but i have no idea how they feel. what would you do? does it follow the saying "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush?"

2006-10-15 03:08:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it true that most of the time when guys cheat it has nothing to do with the way they feel about their girlfriends but they get bored with the same piece of a** and sometimes need a change??

2006-10-15 03:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by Christy R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 03:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She isn't like this with her other guy friends, and she knows I'm not gay. In fact she even pointed that out, she said: I want to give you a manicure, its not gay. (lol) Some people said this is flirting. So, what is the deal? Its a bit weird right?

2006-10-15 03:06:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i and my gf used to make love. she always enjoys the intercourse specially the oral sex. at the end when we finish , i used to ask her how many times she come , but she always answer many times and she never told me how many time exactly !

why girls are like that ???

2006-10-15 03:05:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband left me and his 2 young children 3 years ago .Unknown to me he was having an affair. He went to live with this woman. After 6 months he came home, but was still in contact with his 'lady friend' I asked him to go . Since then he has left the other woman and is now living in a flat on his own. I have asked him if he wants to start again on quite a few occasions, but each time he has said no, he didn't know what he wanted.I have always wanted him to come home, but over the past 6 months my feelings have changed and I have met someone else. Now all of a sudden my husband wants to come home, saying saying that he cant be a part- time Dad anymore!! Not that he actually spent any length of time with his children anyway, (he has never had them to stay overnight at all in the past 2 years.! I still have feelings for him and he says he has feelings for me ? But dont know if I can have him back. Does this sound awful? My mind is so confused. Anyone got any helpful advice?

2006-10-15 03:02:20 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce