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Hi my name is Jen and iam 15 years old , my crush's name is Nick and he plays varsity football.... He was new to my school and he was only in my morning metting room.. So on his first day i said hi and asked him where he was from.. Then he told me if I could show him around school.. so ofcourse .. i did..... Then 2 weeks passed and he saw me cleaning the teachers desk and since then he teases me and calls me Janitor... we usually flirt around by dissing each other but we laugh and we always keep eye contact.. One day we were playing around and he came over to me and said iam going to beat u up and choke u.. but he was just playing... he went over to my desk and put his arms around my neck but it was more like a hug...Then that same day he arrives at my locker in the afternoon and i turned around and i said u freaking scared me so he said oh so u dont want me to be here and i said no i didnt say that.. Then he said see ya around... b/c he knows we live one street away... He asked me if i was going to the football game and i said maybe.. i just dont have no one to go with.. so he said if i wasnt playing in the game i wouldve gone with u to spend time... so then today night was the game and i saw his coach screaming at him but i realized he was looking at me instead of the coach.. so he was staring at me and i stared back......next week.. i was trying to talk to his friend and he kept interrupting me... and i told him your so mean and he said .... Iam sorry.... The he told his friend that i wanted to ask him out.... then his friend said i know who u wanna ask out and he turned red..
Do u think iam the person he likes? but therefore iam not sure if he does b/c he gives me mixed signals.. like today he said ... oh u say hi to my friend but u dont say hi to me.... . well today... i wrote him a note saying if he could encourage me to run. and he said well i have football everyday but ill try. Then he asked his friend and said should I or should i not? and his friend said idk. so then he said maybe on sunday. so i said how will i know? and he said why do u want my number ..... and i said no.... Then i saw him in the hall way and i gave him a note with my #... So what do u think?? he's gonna call or not?
well guess what he called me... and we were getting to know our interest in things... and he wants to come over my house to play video games.... also we were playing around and i was like why dont u make me shut up.. and he said the only simple way of doing that is if id kiss u... and i said why do u want to ... and he said only if youd let me... well we ended up going to a baseball game on saturday... he walked 10 min. just to see me.... and he looked so happy.. he calls me often but idk if he just want me just to feel me or for a relationship... b/c he often talks about how he wants to kiss me... and he told me he liked my personality and that i was pretty... but why do i feel like he just wants me just to play.... b/c also he told me he has had 4 gf's already...

Answer 1

Personally, sounds like things are going great. Do not rush things. You said he was new to your school. Just keep doing what you are doing. Become friends. As teens can become impatient, you have time. Sounds like it may develope to gf-bf but if he says he has 4 gfs, time willo show you if this is true or if he is just trying to impress you. Good luck.

Answer 2

The horse might have some training issues and might be able to get away with rearing because he won't be ridden anymore. If you've never dealt with a rearing horse DO NOT get back on the horse. I don't want to see the horse flip over with you, it'll hurt both you AND the horse. If you can't work with this horse, contact a professional trainer, but before that contact your vet. He might have an overbalance of hormones or some sort of chemical inbalance, I've known it to make horses act "mean". Is he a gelding or a stallion? If he's a gelding he may be proud-cut and have a hormonal inbalance, same goes for if he's a stallion. So my reccommendation? Vet first. The second thing you should consider/look at is whether he's worked in the ring before (if so and he was ok with it, who knows) did you lounge with a whip when you normally don't? He may have been charging at the whip not you. If you're afraid of this horse or worried he might do something bad, just please don't deal with it and find a professional trainer to consult. I'd do what I could to help you, but I'm in South Dakota, so I don't think I'd be a lot of help, lol. You can work on some lounging to get control of him, free lounging in a round-pen, but if he charges be CAREFUL. When you go to catch him does he stand facing you or does he swing his hindquarters towards you? If he does he's being dominant. Maybe you lounged him with tack on and it upset him? I'd definately have to say it's probably a vet thing if he's acting that nasty or a serious training problem. Look into what you did recently that you haven't been doing and possibly contact the old owners and ask them how they road him, with other horses, in an arena or in the open, etc. Maybe he's ticked cause he's not with other horses? Good luck, hun, and no matter what happens be safe. Have the horse vetted first for homones. Be safe.

Answer 3

Hey Jen......... U really like this boy huh? Well my advise for u is to follow ur mind girl and not ur heart.. U r only 15 my dear... I know at 15, our hormones are raging. He express his interest to kiss u and even though u never mentioned it, i guess u want him to kiss u too rite? Esp since u like him :) I think u should give urself some time.... Juz carry on with finding out more things n concentrate of being frenz first.. Go out with him a couple of times and ask his frenz abt him... u have a long way to go

Answer 4

guys are confusing and sometimes give mixed signals. I think the best thing to do is to be straight with him and not try to lure him in or anything. Guys are usually more up front than girls so don't try to manipulate him or anything. Maybe you should just ask him. Talk to his friends and ask them (if you can trust them) maybe you should be friends before gf and bf cause then you can really know if he is true and for real.

Answer 5

WOW!!!! I guess your doing what everyone did at your age, including myself. You reading a lot into things that more than likely doesn't mean much. If your interested in him just continue like your doing and maybe he will ask you out. Until then though you have to just consider him a "potential". Keep your eyes open for other guys also. You never knwo.

Answer 6

folow ur heart sweety.. But i sounds like he wants to be wid u...But i cld be wrong as i dont know exactly between u