My boyfriend just broke up with me after a year and four days. He says that he has a lot of things going on in his life and we had been arguing a lot lately so I think that putting that kind of stress on him didnt help him at all. Since the break up I've realized that our fights were over silly things and I'm willing to do anything to get him back. I've tried talking to him about it but he avoids a deep conversation about it and simply answers with "I dont know" or "I just cant right now". I know he's going through a hard time and I want to be there for him but in the mean time I'm dying with heartbreak. I mean, I love him so much. He tells me that he still loves me and "there is always a chance" and one night after I tried to talk to him about it he gave me a big hug and kissed me after I got upset. I feel like we're going back and forth. One day he'll act like he still wants to be with me and one day he'll act like it doesnt really matter. Is there anything I can do to get him back??
2006-10-15 03:09:44 · 12 answers · asked by aimeenicole33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he himself doesn't know wat he wants in life... U should stop pressuring him with those deep conversations... U said he is going thru a hard time now rite? U should help him tide over this period first before talking abt repairing ur relationship. Be a really really good girl-fren to him first.. And then move from there... Just relive the good moments u had together..... Then maybe he will ask u to com back to him :)
2006-10-15 03:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 05:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cassey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to pull him into deep conversations! Just tell him you know he's going through a hard time, that you will be there for him... but let him know that it's hard on you too... tell him your heart is breaking... and leave it at that. Be there for him like you said you would. Prove that things'll be different. Think positive!
2006-10-15 03:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more from carelessness about the truth than from intentional lying that there is so much falsehood in the world.!Let this be your walls of Brass,to have nothing on your conscience ,no guilt to make you pale.It's like People who fight fire with fire usually end up with ashes.You can better care of your secret.
2006-10-15 03:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend precisely what you advise. i replaced into in the same difficulty, somewhat very nearly the precise difficulty 8 months in the past. this is heartbreaking- you're unhappy, in denial, offended, then unhappy back, then attempting to ensure out a thanks to get him decrease back. or perhaps notwithstanding anybody round you thinks he replaced into an ****** and that you deserve extra constructive, you nevertheless can no longer help yet to care and want him decrease back. human beings inform you to flow on, notwithstanding this is unlike you are able to quickly turn your thoughts off or on like a lightswitch. each and every music you listen on the radio brings decrease back recommendations, all those little issues. and that i spent months waiting and hoping and attempting to get him to come back decrease back to me. yet then i realized that it in difficulty-free words pushed him extra away so I had to initiate pretending that i did not care and that i replaced into over it (when I wasn't) and then after that i said that he replaced into yearning my interest back because i ended giving him ghat interest. this is arduous. So on the top of the day you ought to ignore what anybody tells you because their critiques do not count number (mine protected) and in basic terms settle on in case you sense like he's definitely worth waiting for. it is up flow you. dangle in there, woman!
2016-12-04 20:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the timing. It's got to be his choice if he wants to come back or not dear.
2006-10-15 03:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant see why you would want him back that relationship seems to be all him. Walk away and let him chase you and if he doesn't then you ain't lost anything
2006-10-15 03:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about remind him of all the good times ya'll had togather. how bout ask him do i have a chance of getting back with you right now
2006-10-15 03:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant garenty that this will work but just let him have alittle time to himself and then start out by being friend and then try to work your way back up to dating dont try to hook back up right away i never works.
2006-10-15 03:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by gothmetalhead2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he might need a little more time. Tell him that if he needs any help, that you are there for him.
2006-10-15 03:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋