you say follow your heart, but always? i am not sure if the one i really like feels the same about me? but there is my boyfriend who i get on well with but dont really "fancy". i havent cheated on him, or two timed and really dont want him to get hurt. and he is kinda cute. but i have totally fallen for someone else who i just cant stop thinking about. but i have no idea how they feel. what would you do? does it follow the saying "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush?"
2006-10-15 03:08:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you have to ask yourself if you still love your boyfriend, if u still love him then i would stay with him as he loves you, you think he's kinda cute and u get on well with him. If you dont love him anymore maybe u should ask the guy you have fallen for if he feels the same about you and then take it from there. If u love your bf then stay with him if u dont love him then maybe its time to move on.
Take care
2006-10-15 23:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its no point stopping in a relationship,,thats going nowhere, and not really fair ,, and id spend some time single to sort your head out,, cos its no use jumping out of one relationship,, into another ,,,, or if its just a fling your after GO FOR IT!
2006-10-15 04:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by madmarie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your bf go, if you're no longer interested in him, and have fallen for another. He deserves that. Don't cheat on him, just be honest with him, and yourself so that you can both move on.
2006-10-15 03:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by LibraT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can tell u clover is my ex was going with me i loved her she had similar feelings as u are now toward this man, toward my best friend! she dropped me for him but now she is left with nothing and has ended up going thru a lot of heartache! i wud say stick with ur bfrnd or if u dont love him finish it and then move on, dont betray his trust and ultimately hurt him!!
2006-10-15 03:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by adriboff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont really 'fancy' your boyfriend. I think you know the answer to this question.
2006-10-15 03:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by marcus p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it is really fair to be stringing your boyfriend along, it is obvious that you would rather be with someone else. i think it is only fair that you split up with him, if you are not in love with him, the longer you try and kid yourself the worse it wil get and you will end up hurting him even more
2006-10-15 04:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy with your boyfriend, you should end the relationship. dont stay with him just so your not on your own. when your single you can decide if you want to see the other fella, thats if he wants to see you!
never ever cheat on anyone, it causes too much heartache for everyone.
2006-10-15 04:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just read some of your back questions.
You're still very young at 17 I would go for the new guy. Things should not be too serious at this stage you have plenty of time.
You'll learn through your experiences.
Go for it girl, just don't get cynical if it goes wrong.
2006-10-15 03:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this guy that you are with if you don't fancy him leave him. take some time out then see how you feel. don't rush into anything . what ever you decide to do good luck xx
2006-10-15 03:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by hayley50 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK First off are you Married , if not you have the right to do what ya want go ahead if ya single. Who knows, the other guy might be "The One". Good luck.
2006-10-15 03:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by tim b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋