I am a muslim boy and she is a hindu girl. we became friends very soon & spent a lot of time chatting with each other especially at the canteen.we are staying in hostels. But due to the starting of ramzan i was not able 2 communicate her often bcoz our interval timings become different. After her class college bus will come within 5 minutes and she will left for the hostel. The only time which we get is our lunch time. But as i am taking fast i am not able to chat at that time also. Meanwhile my roommate get touch with her and soon they became intimate friends. When she left 4 Bangalore for a tour 4 one week she called him from the station and also send some friendly messages but she did not call me nor send any messages. when i complained her about that she replied that she did not get time to do so. I became angry and ask her that she had the time to call him but not me, she replied that if i am thinking her to be an insinciere friend then its ok. I also treat u like that.
2006-10-15 01:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by shamailsa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am so sorry to hear of your troubles. You sound sincere in wanting to talk with her and your intentions seem proper. But it sounds to me, as a woman, that she is not interested in doing the same for you. I would encourage you to turn your attention to another girl. This little bird has flown away.
2006-10-15 01:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, I'm sorry to say this but you are headed towards heartbreak with this girl. Thing you need to do is to lock her out of your mind and focus elsewhere. If she found time to call your friend and even send him messages, why then wouldn't she find time to do the same to you? She's focused on him more than you.
2006-10-15 01:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not 100% sure I get your story, so from how I read it, one of your closest friends befriended another guy and they got intimate, right? And she never called you or anything so you decided to confront HER and SHE was the one who BLAMED YOU of being a bad friend?
If that's the right story then I dont think you did anything wrong. It's her fault and if she has a problem with you, dont waste your time with her.
2006-10-15 01:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate. talk to her if you can. and tell her that you dont want an insincere friend. also clarify the roza thing and why you couldnt call her then. apologise for that but DONT stoop too low. she should understand by this,if doesnt move on .she is immature and will be giving you tougher times. love.
2006-10-15 01:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has chosen someone else.. It does not mean she isn't a friend, but her interests are with someone else. Unfortunately it is your roommate....
I know it seems so hurtful, but you must now seek affections from someone new..
You don't have to be mean to her, but be casual.... It is over and there is nothing to be upset about.. You were not dating her and she is free to do as she pleases, just as you are.Do not blame your roommate, as it is obvious she chose him.....
Make some new friends......
2006-10-15 01:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters stay out of it in view which you do no longer p.c. to become in touch. permit time shelter it. it is all you're able to do. additionally in no way talk approximately one with the different. meaning do no longer talk a pair of to B or approximately B to A.
2016-12-26 19:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing her.
Are you so insecure about yourself?
She is not worth it.
Time for your roommate and not for you?
Where are her priorities?
She is a gold digger.
Get rid of her:bye bye.
2006-10-15 01:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes tru u r being an insecure friend. give her sum time, she'll shoot back in for sure. just as u had issues she doesnt know, she also might be hvn issues u dont know. have trust, dude, dats most imp in friendship!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 01:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by proxsmartest2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try ignoring her and see what she does and make friends with a another girl(preferably a Muslim girl) and spend all your time with her and see what she does
2006-10-15 01:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to that person
2006-10-15 01:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by sexychick14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋