when our mom died me an my bro we were seperated. The thing is we still live in the same neighborhood but i live with my dads step wife my bro lives with my dad.
My dad's ex is a total bich she hates my bro and he didnt do annything to her were are extremy attached but he told me yesterday that he has loved me since 6th grade even though he is sixteen and i am fiffteen. he loves me soooooooo much that wwhen i was so called " sleeping" he kissed me i did nothing to prevent this from happening i m scared to tell my mom well the person whith is taking care of me. Since she hates my bro i have no to turn to except u readers help.
2006-10-15 01:46:21 · 23 answers · asked by nicegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ppl you guys are AMAZING thankyou soooooooooooo much. I really needed your help if i loved my brother more than i would probably say yes and go for it but i dont at least not really. The thing i really want is a person i can turst like a mother but i dont . If i told my dad i no what he would do to my bro he would be sent off to a bording school. And i dont want to do that i would feel guilty. I tryed getting a boy friend what happened to him my brother beated him up like three days ago i am soooooooo lost.
2006-10-15 02:21:59 · update #1
Whoa? The fact that you are asking this question shows you know the answer already. Tell your brother that this is not only twisted but terribly unfair to do this to you, you love him - he knows it, best not be taking advantage of it. Sounds like all you have is each other and your dad left, don't fu(k it up by being stupid or indecisive.
2006-10-15 01:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know there are different kinds of love that we feel for different people-Their are a 1000 definitions of love- meaning the love U feel for your Dad is different from the love U feel for your Mom, the love U have for your Aunt is different from your uncle,the love U have for one sister is different from the other- Of course U love your brother-and he loves you-U R brother & sister that will never change,but to go any further with this is WRONG for every one involved,not to mention if one day U want children-they could end up with health problems.How about telling your child that your brother is their Uncle and their Father!You should keep your brother as your brother and nothing more.LOOK OUT SIDE OF THE BOX!!!!!!
2006-10-15 02:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your brother loves you, it's good and very Normal. But, if the love turn into a sexually sort of way, it's not good. It complicates things. Like if you have kids, they would have to call you brother father, as well as uncle, and yourself mother and aunt. Your father would become grandfather and grandfather in law. Your father will remain father, but will also become father in law for both you and your brother. The whole world will look at you very funny, and in some society you will be condemned. Your kids will be retarded and vulnerable to all diseases. The weak genes in your gene pool will come out.
2006-10-15 01:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Titan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that you already know that it is very wrong! and it is abnormal behaviour. i think that you need to take to your brother first and tell him to stop and he needs to realise that it is just sisterly love and nothing else. there is plenty of fish in the sea for the both of you. you dont need to be turning to eachother for that type of love. if your talk does not work out then i think that you need to tell someone in your family like your dad. his behaviour is abnormal and is very sick. he made need help. as hard as it for you love to hear these things i cant begin to image what you must be going through at such a young age. i think that you already know that its wrong just by your statement. so have a brother and sister talk and discuss that it is wrong and that he is just confused that you will always love eachother cause you are family. perhaps on the other hand you have totally misunderstood what he ment by love.
2006-10-15 02:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by majjenta010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHHHHHHHHH HONEY, I'M SO SORRY YOUR MOM PASSED AWAY!!! YOU COULD REALLY USE HER ADVICE NOW, COULDN'T YOU?? SWEETHEART, PLEASE BE CAREFUL!! IT IS NOT NORMAL FOR YOUR BROTHER TO BE IN LOVE WITH YOU!! AND YOU SHOULDN'T LET HIM KISS YOU LIKE A BOYFRIEND WOULD. I UNDERSTAND ABOUT YOUR STEP MOM, ISN'T THERE ANOTHER FEMALE ADULT YOU CAN TALK TOO??? AN AUNT OR A FRIENDS MOM???? YOU REALLY DO NEED "A MOM" RIGHT NOW, AND PROBABLY A BIG HUG!!!!!!!!! YOUR JUST 15, DON'T BE FOOLISH AND DO SOMETHING YOU'LL REGRET LATER. AND BESIDES, SHOULD YOU BE KISSING BOYS YET??? PLEASE BE CAREFUL HONEY, REALLY TRY AND FIND A WOMEN YOU CAN TRUST LIKE A MOM!!!! I HOPE THIS ALL WORKS OUT FOR YOU!! ONE OTHER THING, YOU SOUND MUCH TO SMART TO DO ANYTHING FOOLISH, JUST TELL YOUR BROTHER YOU LOVE HIM TOO, BUT NOT AS A BF, AS YOUR BIG BROTHER!!!!!
2006-10-15 02:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this is normal for him to have these feelings, because you were the only loving woman in his life. It's like boys falling for their mom, except you are the female close to him. You should sit down and discuss it with him. Tell him your feelings, and listen to his. Then take it from there.
2006-10-15 02:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart one small kiss is fine.I would just let it go and tell your brother that if he loves you like a sister that would be fine.But to love you like a girlfriend that is not moral or normal. You need to make it clear to him that you don't want any part in a relationship that is more then being sister and brother. Then if he takes it any farther you need to tell him you will go to your mom.Good luck hon
2006-10-15 01:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal there is something really wrong with that and right now i think you or your bro has really experienced love to really know what that is if you cant talk to your "mom" then try talking to your dad
2006-10-15 01:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by mel b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop this behavior right away. No good can come of it. It sounds as if you both need love and affection but don't cross the line into an incestuous relationship.
2006-10-15 01:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by HoneyBunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, it is very abnormal situation.In fact , this the first time I am meeting a girl who is in love with her blood-brother.I mean how can one fall in love with his own sister.This is just too haed for me to swallow.And I am repeating it again, IT IS NOT NORMAL.
2006-10-15 01:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by mysteryman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋