i am very jealous when he is talking to other girls and we argue when were on a night out because im so jealous when really pretty girls talk to him and he can see it bothers me he says hes only talking to them but to me he looks like he is flirting! help!
2006-10-15 01:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by vicky_js23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you continue to act as though you don't trust him; when you are not around he just may run with that... Don't give him a reason/excuse to do what you fear the most. Respect the relationship and the partner or get out of it. Just becuase he is in a relationship with you des not mean that his world stopped and his pulse did too! You can't tell me that occasional flirting does not make you feel good (especially if ur on the receiving end) Give him some credit loosen up and enjoy the relationship and stop damaging it!
2006-10-15 02:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by FoReal! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously a very outgoing person and has alot of friends. Does he introduce you to these other girls he talks to when you're together? If not, then that is rude and if he;s going to have female friends he needs to introduce you when you're together.If you've told him this bothers you and he ignores you then that isn't a good sign. If he cares about you he should try to be more respectful. If you don't trust him, don't go out with him. He's probably not going to be willing to change alot so accept him as he is or get a new guy.
2006-10-15 09:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the issue is not him its you sweetie maybe you should work on your confidence a bit what you don't think you are pretty like the other girls? Obviously he goes home with you so tell me is the problem that you don't feel good enough for him?
2006-10-15 08:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant you see he's playing you?
its obvious that he likes flirting with girls so hes not up for commitment yet. So why waste your time with that? And some girl to girl advice, stop being so insecure of yourself, be confident. If theyre pretty ---your gorgeous, if theyre hot--- your sizzling. if they want him----you want someone BETTER.
2006-10-15 08:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to work on trusting yourself and him. your jealousy is going to drive him away eventually. so deal with it now. talk to a counsellor. jealousy is such a strong negative feeling. some where this stemmed and wasn't from him. something happened in your life were maybe you lost something or someone and have been scared maybe ever since to lose something else you care about. but deal with it....or you will lose him. i guarantee it.
2006-10-15 08:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its plaint to see...
your dude's a flirt! arent we all?..lol
does he introduce you to any of these girls as his girl friend,together with his friends and family?
if not he maybe a player aswell.
observe how the girls act towards him,touchy?
if his aware that it bothers you.
you know you deserve better so move on...
be strong and take care
2006-10-15 08:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to do the same things.just go and speak with the hottest man in the bar and dance with them.then you can feel him coming to get you back.be happy and smile for all men
2006-10-15 09:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by LILI 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't be such a jealous woman, be confident, and trust your man that you are very much capable of keeping him and he will never go astray!
2006-10-15 08:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel about this talk to him and tell him that it hurts a lot when he does this maybe he'll understand
2006-10-15 08:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by reshma r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋