I know she loves me, but I dont know if she thinks of me as boyfriend material.
How should I go about raising the issue? Should I?
2006-10-15 01:48:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if your wiling to lose the friendship for love, why don't you talk to her about it? i mean if you sure that every-things gonna fine then go for it!
but first test her fillings first by uhhhmm... How about if you ask questions that isn't direct. like " um I got a friend of me that is in love with................" well you know the rest so electrify!!!! OK?!
Good luck!!!
2006-10-15 02:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by yhuan 28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been best friends????
If you grew up together chances are she does love you, but in a different way.
Does she show any signs of added affection????
If she was always touching, squeezing, kissing you on the cheek , hugging and all that stuff, then you need to look to see if there have been any changes to that pattern..Is she shy around you now? Does she get easily embarassed around you???
If she has a bf, then you should keep your distance and respect her as a friend... if she is single and you feel that there is a definite interest on her part that matches yours, then invite her out to a movie or something and see what happens. DON'T MAKE IT LIKE A DATE THE FIRST TIME`````BE PATIENT...
Remember not to fool yourself because you feel the way you do towards her.. you do not want to loose a good friend because you
made her feel uncomfortable.. Move very cautiously.....
2006-10-15 08:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm, this is a tricky one. you could start by saying so what type of bloke is she interested in, i wouldnt come right out with it id work round it, pay her compliments whenver you see her but dont make it too obvious! OR you could say would you like to go out for a meal and maybe spill your feelings out, but be carful what u say as u dont want to ruin a good friendship.
Whatever happens just remember at the end of the day if she is a good enough friend and doesnt want a relationship with u im sure she will just b honest and u will still have a great friendship bond with eachotha. Good Luck Mate. :)
2006-10-15 08:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by vicky_js23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really up to your gut feeling.If you raise up the issue,you might end up destroying your friendship&trust me you will feel very miserable.However,if you are very sure that she loves you,go ahead&ask her.She probably doesnt want to ask you as she may feel shy bringing up the topic first.
2006-10-15 08:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by frozen_blue.angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, you know, like "you see, I've been watching you, my interest in you as my girlfriend has been building up and I could hold no longer, I need you to be mine, I love you and I want you to be mine" - that kind of thing.
2006-10-15 08:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best solution. be honest about ur feelings...tell her what makes her that special someone...if u r good she's all urs....else it's try being a gentleman and carry on the friendship...May be in time she will reciprocate
2006-10-15 08:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by suni_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if she is open wid u ......the way she talks determines her mind and her feelings once u know and u have that self confidence in u tell her and im sure she'll feel the same about u!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-15 08:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by reshma r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yo freak on. You'll never know unless you tell her.
2006-10-15 08:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her directly
2006-10-15 08:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by Shengjie Su 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look @ her eyes & ask, "Do u feel what i feel?". Believe me, it works. I myself tested it.
2006-10-15 08:53:36 · answer #10 · answered by Banglacat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋