Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

my best friend has been doing things she really shouldn't and no matter what i tell her she keeps doin it to herself. And i feel like if I stop talking to her she over do it an die. I'm not sure what to do any more. Because i dont want to have the feeling of If i stop talkin to her and she dies, i dont want to feel like it was my fault and live my life wonder what would of happened if i just kept bein her friend. what should i do. Even my boyfriend feels like there is no hope in helping her.

2006-10-13 08:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have trouble getting a girlfriend. I have a good personality, I am pretty good looking and I have an average body. I don't know if my problem is that I'm a type of person who wants a girl to approach him first or what? What should I do?

2006-10-13 08:25:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got off the bus. My best friend who i have a huge crush on were having a fight because I don't want him to go out with either one of these two girls. I don't want to be in a fight with him because i like him a lot and if those girls see that we aren't gettingn along right now they'll take over him and turn him against me. this isn't really a question but your insight would help

2006-10-13 08:23:50 · 14 answers · asked by ~serendipity~ 2 in Friends

I'm 40something and he's 21. We work together but have never been intimate. I'm extremely infatuated, an would like to try it out, but co-peers find it distasteful. Family tells me that I would be **** on by a younger man, and co-peers say, I'm chester the molester. Hmmm. If a man, no matter what age finds me attractive, and if I find a guy attractive should I be concerned with age as long as he's an adult? Is age just a number or does it mean alot more than that? No I couldn't provide him children in the future, but should I persue his offer to come visit him at his apartment. Other concern is I haven't been sexually active in over 3yrs. Layin dormant I guess, but he seems to strike a nerve. What should I do? Should I forget about my infatuation. I'm black and he's white. He also is talking to a girl in his own age group, but what does that mean? Does it mean that he's doing what society want?

2006-10-13 08:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by mamaghost2001 1 in Singles & Dating

But you know it is most likely over but you still love them and still want to be together..... and songs besides "we belong together" by mariah carey

2006-10-13 08:23:14 · 13 answers · asked by apbudge 1 in Singles & Dating

We've know each other for like 5 years, but we actually started dating 3 months ago and his mom died about 2 weeks ago. We are living in two different states, and it's not much I can do physically. I try to talk to him on a daily bases, and sometimes he talk and sometimes he doesn't want to be bothered. He siad it's not me, and that he loves me and he wishes I was there with him. But sometimes when I call him he be with his friends having a good old time as though nothng happen. He said because he doesn't show his real feelings to no one but me. Is he just saying that and maybe the lil feeling we were starting to grow for each other gown sour or do you think he is really sincere in what he said?

2006-10-13 08:23:02 · 3 answers · asked by Heaven 2005 2 in Singles & Dating

if there is a custudy battle of a baby that is not even born yet between a newly married couple, for three months and cant even get along, husband is still living with mother, but yet wife is a mother of a 7 year old son that he shows no intrest to or shows no intrest in new baby, he wants full custady because he feels the wife is un fit to be the mother of his child but he thinks a 8pm bedtime for a seven year old is not right he thinks it is okay for the child to do whatever he or she wants , also he thinks its okay to not wear a seatbelt in the car and even if it is in the back seat. im not sure what to do i really dont think he should even fight me on this i dont want trouble on his part.

2006-10-13 08:22:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can i get a moms advice , should i go talk to her!

2006-10-13 08:22:37 · 45 answers · asked by Craig M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my guy are great togeather. The problem is that I don't feel an attraction towards him or any other guy that I have dated and furthermore I just don't want to have sex. I cannot imagine any man sticking their penis in me. I know I have got a real problem. What should I do?

2006-10-13 08:22:29 · 6 answers · asked by Need Quite help 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex is currently under investigation for molesting my first child (from another father). We moved to another state and I am 31 weeks pregnant. I feel like putting the unborn child up for adoption would be in the best interest of all children involved (it would sever ties with this person for life). Because of legal petitions that have already been filed, I am unable to put the baby up for adoption. I am stuck with no options. Help!

2006-10-13 08:22:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 40something and he's 21. We work together but have never been intimate. I'm extremely infatuated, an would like to try it out, but co-peers find it distasteful. Family tells me that I would be **** on by a younger man, and co-peers say, I'm chester the molester. Hmmm. If a man, no matter what age finds me attractive, and if I find a guy attractive should I be concerned with age as long as he's an adult? Is age just a number or does it mean alot more than that? No I couldn't provide him children in the future, but should I persue his offer to come visit him at his apartment. Other concern is I haven't been sexually active in over 3yrs. Layin dormant I guess, but he seems to strike a nerve. What should I do? Should I forget about my infatuation. I'm black and he's white. He also is talking to a girl in his own age group, but what does that mean? Does it mean that he's doing what society want?

2006-10-13 08:22:21 · 4 answers · asked by mamaghost2001 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you get over someone you like...but, nothing really happened between the two of you..? How do you stop thinking about what could have happened..but never did....and move on..? Also, how long do you hold onto a feeling...is two yrs...time to move forward with your life...and find someone new..or do you still hold onto that tiny piece of hope..thinking that maybe one day something amazing will happen between the two of you...?

2006-10-13 08:21:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this HUGE,MAJOR,crush on this guy. I liked him since third grade! I s this true love?

2006-10-13 08:20:54 · 30 answers · asked by | 爱 ) 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex from like 2 years ago wants me back, but he makes me sick to my stomach. But lately I've been thinking I should get a boyfriend, but I'm going through this dry spell (no crushes, no guys seem interested in me) and I'm really hating this loneliness. My sister in law thinks I should give him a 2nd chance since he wasn't a bad guy, she says sometimes you just have to settle. Should I? I mean it's not like other guys are just jumping out of the bushes in a hury to date me.

2006-10-13 08:20:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's pretty darn hard to manage one wife. I was wondering if there are any cultures in which a man marries more than one woman where the women (however many) keep themselves in line and listen to the king of the hot dog stand so that the household can be orderly, clean and well kept with minimal arguments? Seems that most women would be at each other's throat in no time, but with proper training, diet and exercise it would seem that they it may be possible to keep them happy. Which country is the safest with the highest amount of single, obedient women to multi-marry??

2006-10-13 08:19:54 · 7 answers · asked by Bumbo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 08:19:33 · 16 answers · asked by mr.kick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I was wondering if I should go for women who is older to me in age or younger to me for marriage. why do people say women should be younger to man. what is the problem if women is older by few years or say few months. I am 29 years so is it like that if i go for older women , she needs to conceive within few years as older women have more risk in child birth.

2006-10-13 08:18:57 · 16 answers · asked by rose t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When someone seems to blame you for everything that goes wrong, even though they might later change their opinion and tell you it was them...when pretends to do one thing, knowing it's not the way they really feel, ONLY to see what type of reaction they're going to get out of you? What can you do to change this type of relationship when you're in love with someone?
(Reference http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061013114353AAGl6zS&r=w)

2006-10-13 08:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

met a girl last week and really I thought we had really it off. We talked for quite a long time the night we met and again when I called her, we get a long great. We made plans to go out maybe for a drink, she said she had dinner plans with an old friend but was very intrested in meeting up after. I called to confirm our plans but she had said that her and her friend had gotten off to a late start and she wasnt going to be able me meet me that night but she would call me over the weekend. Although I dont think she was trying to blow me off by doing that (she did already have plans prior to our plans) Should I try to set up another meeting between us if and when she calls this weekend? Or should I let her make the effort to see what her intrest level is I think she has a valid reason for not being able to meet up with me and she was very eager to make plans at some point over the next week or so when we first talked about getting together.

2006-10-13 08:18:45 · 17 answers · asked by kb_sn05 1 in Friends

i always laugh for little things and stupid things lol i am not mental or anything its just i laugh too much even when some 1 says hello or when they fall down wat can i do not to laugh hold my mouth? or sumink like that plz give me ur advice

2006-10-13 08:18:37 · 14 answers · asked by Emily * 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

dont know i think its about that

2006-10-13 08:17:32 · 7 answers · asked by Info Pirate 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 11 months and almost everytime we go somewhere, he says something about another girl! It bothers me so much, I talk to him about it but he never really listens to me! H-E-L-P!

2006-10-13 08:17:17 · 39 answers · asked by â?  Lindseeâ?¢ [BreakDown]â?¥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is he called a protagonist?
What are the conflicts in the story?

2006-10-13 08:17:15 · 3 answers · asked by carleentamapolu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife is having thick hair in her secret areas. We both like oral sex much. Some time, while doing oral, hair is making problems to me. She afraid to shave it. What is the solution for this?

2006-10-13 08:17:11 · 5 answers · asked by Gopalakrishnan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 08:17:01 · 4 answers · asked by divs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

See the guy i married left me twice and then we got back together and got married. But i recently met this really sweet guy but we are just friends. I can tell there is a connection between us.....sexually and maybe even more. What should i do? Should i go ahead and leave my husband of only 4 months......or should i stick around and maybe this feeling will go away. Note that i dont want to leave him for this guy but it is pretty tempting.

2006-10-13 08:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Never considered divorce?...and if you are happy, is your wife just as content?

2006-10-13 08:16:56 · 14 answers · asked by nikkismiles7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So.. my aunt had an affair with our coworker.. My aunts married for 20 something years [since she was 18] and the guy she cheated w/ works in our office and has a wife, who was PREGNANT at the time he was f*cking my aunt. My aunts husband is the nicest guy in the world, and our whole family loves him. We'd be devastated if he wasn't in our family. Now everyone in our family knows what happened- besides my grandpa and no ones has told her husband and we all feel guilty. We dont care much for our aunt... but we dont want to hurt her husbands feelings. ALSO when her husband went out of town w/ their kids she had a one night stand.. im the only one who knows about this. We feel like we need to tell him.. but don't know if we should?? We're all tired of the lies... what do you think we should do??

2006-10-13 08:16:34 · 14 answers · asked by Susana M. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends from out of state (LA) always make jokes about the way it looks, and then eattin one is like you're....Well so to settle it give me some feed back to show that i'm not just being defensive. For those of you that don't know what real boudin is... com'on down ta sauth lousiana an ask somebody!!!

2006-10-13 08:16:16 · 4 answers · asked by Daddy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

...Never considered divorce? and if you are happy, is your husband as happy as you?

2006-10-13 08:16:13 · 19 answers · asked by nikkismiles7 2 in Marriage & Divorce