How do you get over someone you like...but, nothing really happened between the two of you..? How do you stop thinking about what could have happened..but never did....and move on..? Also, how long do you hold onto a feeling...is two yrs...time to move forward with your life...and find someone new..or do you still hold onto that tiny piece of hope..thinking that maybe one day something amazing will happen between the two of you...?
2006-10-13 08:21:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my...it sounds very much like my case...for years, the fella didn't know a thing ... and still, I am hopelessly bearing somekind of hope, thinking something would happen, somehow...
sometimes feelings are uncontrollable (like in my case), I guess, maybe if you stop seeing the person (try not to go near him, talk to him), you can kinda help yourself, to slowly forget the person...
2006-10-13 08:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years?? I'd say, 2 months is plenty enough time to get over it and move forward with your life. Life is short as is! You will "like" and "love" many people on your path, if you spend 2 years getting over every one of them you will never really see what life has to offer. Move on, have fun, get a hobby, look for someone new. It's time.
2006-10-13 15:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that never happened but could have? You mean like getting hit by a truck?
Get real. You seem to have a lot of time on your hands to formulate "what if" questions. If you do manage to find out just how to address these "what if" scenarios, let me know. I think I can market this to the world. All mankind would be eternally grateful and I'd be filthy rich.
2006-10-13 15:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either piss or get off the pot , id say move on or make a move and i know where you coming from sounds like it wasn't meant to be but i don't know if you even told him or not so if you have tried to get something going and i mean put your self out their and no deal then YES it is time to move on to some one real some one that you can have an actual relation ship with it prolly seams so like if only we were together because you've made it that way in your head if you wer really w/ him then it may not be all flowers and candle lite know wot i mean.....
2006-10-13 15:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by <B> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't wait... you're life will pass you by if you do. If the person you're talking about wanted you the same way you want them they would be with you. Ever read, "He's just not that into you"? A VERY liberating book, I loved it.
Get your mind off the 'one that got away' and get out, get busy! Meet with friends, get a hobby or take a class, whatever it takes to get you moving in a new (and mentally and emotionally) healthier direction.
Best of luck to you!
2006-10-13 15:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by clair_dlune 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt made his move for 2 years, then maybe its a sign that means move on...sometimes you will always have unanswered questions in your life and maybe this is one of them..Just be happy with what you have and go date and have fun. The right person is just around the corner. Good Luck
2006-10-13 15:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the exact same boat as you, dreaming of possibilities that could never be. How I got over it? I basically had to get rid of the little things that reminded me of them, and to cease from contacting them, period. In time, he will fade from your thoughts and memory. If you stay friends with him, just be wary, and the friendship may sustain this belief for a VERY long time.
2006-10-13 15:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Psylence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had this b4. cept i liked the guy for 4 years. i told him last spring- nothing has happened between us, but since then and he and i talked bout y we would nvr go out, ive opened myself to other guys. now i have an amazing bf. o, and they guy that i liked, he and i r best friends and i still hang out w/ him all the time.
tell him how u feel, talk to him about it, and then move on
2006-10-13 15:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, God will send someone along to you when the time is right. Having someone who you think about right now will just keep you from going from person to person, like most other people do.
2006-10-13 15:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Fun2010 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get over it when you meet someone better.
IMO it's not healthy to dream like this over someone you don't even have a relationship with, it's bordering on obsession.
Another way to get over it is to just tell him and see if he wants to get with you. One way or another, you can put that nagging thought to rest. Stop watching dramas.
2006-10-13 15:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋