which is better women older to you or younger to u for marriage?

Question

Hi, I was wondering if I should go for women who is older to me in age or younger to me for marriage. why do people say women should be younger to man. what is the problem if women is older by few years or say few months. I am 29 years so is it like that if i go for older women , she needs to conceive within few years as older women have more risk in child birth.

Answer 1

Biologically, you can marry and make a woman pregnant at any age during her reproductive years. That is, any woman from about 16 to 50s (Till her menopause age).
A few months or few years difference makes no difference!
However, people generally recommend that she be about 5 years younger than the man, in order that they may age gracefully together, at all times. Women age faster than men; so to offset the fact that the man hardly looks like he is just 50 while she already looks 55+, people suggest the woman who is about 5-6 years younger.

Answer 2

To each his own choice.Are you marrying a woman for a child.(As per your question you are worried as to whether a woman older than you can give you a good, healthy child, if you marry her due to the myth that at old age she has more risk during child birth ??). Relax. Marry a young girl. Get the first child at the earliest and after that for the next five years have fun with her.All the same if you love some female, older to you and really, really wanna marry her go ahead.Try to get the first two children (if you want two) within three years of marriage and settle down with her.

Answer 3

Age really does not matter provided there is genuine love and understanding between the two persons. Conception risks do increase with age but they are not insurmountable. You do need a good obstetrician for advice. A fairly long courtship is desirable if there is too much discrepancy in the ages. This ensures there is true love and it is not just an infatuation. This is a very personal decision and only you can make that choice.

Answer 4

In choosing your life partner,the most important thing is that you should both be compatible with each other.in other words you should have alot of things in common.Love is more important than an age difference,and if you are worried about a woman who is older,having less time to conceive,then dont worry because now it has become very common for older women to have healthy pregnancies and normal deliveries.If you have any concerns then you and your partner should cosult a doctor and see if any risks are involved.

Answer 5

it should not be about age love . love does not have age when you think or know what is best for you, you will have answered your own question. a older woman might want more from a man than that man is use too if he is younger than that woman a older man might be set in his ways and hard to work with if that woman is younger than that female.

Answer 6

It depends on personal liking otherwise there should be no problem..By the way i prefer 2-3 years younger.

Answer 7

IF YOU ARE 29 YOU GO FOR WOMAN 26 TO 32 YEARS. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG TO MARRIAGE AN OLDER WOMAN. OLDER WOMAN ARE MORE CARING.

Answer 8

women get older look then the men quickly. coz getting pregnancy, childbirth and some domestic stress decays her beauty and and in compare of man she look older, and men dint like older women coz his middle age crisis, and feel some complexes in front of his colleagues and fast friends, so 99% of men specially in India looking younger bride

Answer 9

Age dosnt matter as long as over 18, and you agree on how things are and going to be.

Answer 10

I am few years older than my husbend and we are happily married. Doesnt really matter.. eventhough everyone in my family were against this marriage because of this reason, we got married anyway and we couldnt be happier.