Can i get a moms advice , should i go talk to her!
2006-10-13 08:22:37 · 45 answers · asked by Craig M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
everybody says dont talk, but my mom is asking me alot of questions, i play that i am sick, but i know i will have to talk to her, how should i be , deny everything?
2006-10-14 04:15:10 · update #1
Lock the door next time dumb*ss!
2006-10-13 08:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Most likely she's just as freaked out as you are. For some moms it can be a delicate subject. My mom walked in on my boyfriend and I having sex...I hid in the closet for an hour while my boyfriend went and talked to her! That was a looong time ago though. Since then...I much more comfortable about sex talk with her...lol. The best thing to do for now, sit down, offer to talk about it..."Hey...about the other day..." Most likely she'll cut you off and say she doesn't need to know and all is well. If she attacks you on the subject...remind her that "everyone bops". Cause most likely she's done it too! Lots of luck!
2006-10-13 08:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question, but I'll do my best. I'm thinking that if I caught my daughter masturbating, I would be more embarrassed than she. It's embarrassing to you because you were caught, but embarrassing to her becasuse she seen you in action. Most moms don't expect this. But the best way to handle this is say nothing. Act as if, and treat it as though it never happened. I'm sure she has done it at one time in her life. It will soon be forgotten, and she may realize that you have needs or are exploring. Better to be caught by yourself than with someone else.
2006-10-13 08:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by mamaghost2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hiding and trying to avoid her. Act as if nothing happened. If she starts to interrogate you, tell her that it's none of her business, and that masturbation is a natural thing to do. Make it seem as if she's wrong by getting mad, rather than you being wrong for doing it. She'll either see your point and let it go, or get really mad and try to bring your dad into the argument. If that happens, you have a good chance at winning, since he will most likely side with you.
2006-10-14 06:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a mum but I'm sure she's probably just as embarrassed as you, if I were you I'd just not say anything and hopefully both of you can just put it to the back of your minds and carry on like it didn't happen. I'd like to think when I have kids I'll be able to talk about stuff like that openly and joke about it but I certainly couldn't have done with my mum.
2006-10-13 08:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Caromack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just let it go. Moms know that boys (and girls) do that. I am sure she was a little shocked at seeing it. But don't lwt it bother you. EVERYONE does it, it is not a big deal. If you really want to talk to her about it, just ask her if she would like to talk aout what she saw. But honestly I don't think you should stress about it
2006-10-13 08:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by baileysmom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were a mom and I accidentally walked in on my son masturbating, I would be embarassed that I interrupted him. I don't think she will say anything to you. If anything, I think she'll be happy that you're growing into a man.
2006-10-13 08:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, all us moms know that our kids do it, but we make believe its not there. I wouldn't talk to her, if I was to walk in on my son, I would say "sorry - my bad" close the door, walk away. End of story.
2006-10-13 08:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i'm not a mum. But can i ask you a question? Will your mum actually bring it up? It is best just to forget about it. Masturbation is perfectly normal, and parents do actually know that.
2006-10-13 08:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by barbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have six kids...mom's know. I walked in on one or two of those "sessions" in my lifetime as a parent. I just said, Jeez, and left the room. There is nothing you need to say to your mom. Just clean up after yourself. If she mentions it, well, just smile and lie and say you'll never do it again. :))
2006-10-13 08:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by Hatem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are going to be awkward for a while. I have a son (very young), and I know sooner or later it's going to happen. That still doesn't mean I ever want to see it. Just let things go.
2006-10-13 08:26:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋