I have trouble getting a girlfriend. I have a good personality, I am pretty good looking and I have an average body. I don't know if my problem is that I'm a type of person who wants a girl to approach him first or what? What should I do?
2006-10-13 08:25:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Three step plan to getting a girl:
1. Be confident and talk to her about all the fun stuff you and your friends are doing. Even make some crap up, like road trips and club hopping
2. Ask her out as you ask several others around her to do something fun as a group. Then focus on her that night and keep her attention.
3. Get her good and drunk cause you sound like a loser.
2006-10-13 08:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by neptune032701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have same problem. Best advice have a couple of drink but just dont get wrecked. Ask the DJ in a club to announce you are looking for a dance and the best dancer gets a bottle of champagne.
You will have a queue of dances and probably end up getting layed. With all the attention you could hope for. No point in being half measured about it.
Your serious life long partner will come along when the time is right, for now just get out and about as much as you can.
Always go to a pub/club with one other male friend, make sure he is not as good looking as you. makes you look better. lways laugh and jioke never paying attention to anything else around you.
Girls will want to see what allthe laughing is about.
2006-10-13 15:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl who loathes approaching men. I know for a fact I'm not the only one. Just be confident, you have to snatch one up. With all those good qualities you stated, who would say no? So many women are just waiting to be scooped! I know I am! Just do it...if you need some inspiration, watch "A lot like love".
2006-10-13 15:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Raina22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels natural for you. I am in the same boat as of right now. I know it is hard but it will happen for you sooner or later and of course you probably prefer sooner, I know. For now just accept it for what it is and reapeat to yourself IT IS WHAT IT IS and don't fret it will turn aroung I am sure of it.I f you need to talk you may write to me.
cheers darlin
2006-10-13 15:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i could tell you.... is simply be yourself!!!!!!!!! If you want a gf who would like/love you for you and not as just another bf, then you have to be you!! Be patient, relax and the right gf will be right in front of you sooner than you think.
2006-10-13 15:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I heard this yesterday and I guess be you're self!! So do what you do best!! Get some help or just be friends b/c not every one needs a g/f! I think just being someones friend is better b/c it lasts longer so try it!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-13 15:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have trouble then maybe you could ask a friend if they know someone who might be interested.
2006-10-13 15:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find plenty of women in church, but that won't guarantee that they are good. Its a good place to start looking though.
2006-10-13 15:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Jacksonville, FL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything that you have stated sounds good but what you are lacking is the cash.
2006-10-13 15:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a girl out.
2006-10-13 15:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋