Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

I dont know what to make of the whole thing. idont see her as being older, and she doesnt look it at all. we've been together about 3-4 months now and im falling in love with her. so should i persue this or drop it?

2006-10-10 09:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by defensor-fortis 2 in Singles & Dating

We were high as sh1t and we were drivin to this dude's house to rob his a55 cuz he ripped us off earlier and he was like "dude you gotta try crack sometime man i swear it will make you feel so good, you cant get hooked on it on the first time, just try it once i swear you wont regret it, etc." i kept sayin no hell no im not f*ckin stupid and he wouldnt give up askin me. im like im not into the hard drugs you know i didnt know the weed we got was laced with pcp and all but i was high as f*ck but i still wouldnt give in. then after we sped off leaving dude's house he finally quit asking me. doesn't that sh1t get on your nerves?

2006-10-10 09:27:13 · 5 answers · asked by JESUS 2 in Friends

The background...I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 24. Her dad has given me permission to marry her, and she has an engagement ring on her finger. I took her to the mall the other day and we went to one of the anchor stores and I had to go to the bathroom, so she just walked around looking at some clothing. Well, I come out and this guy is "hitting" (flirting) with my girlfriend. I told him he better get away from my property and that ring means she belongs to a man. He told me that women aren't owned and that she wasn't my property, blah, blah, blah...We ended up getting in a huge fight and the security guards came out and broke us up, then they interviewed me in this room and I told the guard what happened and he said that girlfriend's aren't property. I was like whatever, and I got expelled from the mall for 6 months. Fortunately, my girl took care of some cuts I had and told me she loves me and she knows her place and I don't have to prove it, but what's with these other jerks?

2006-10-10 09:26:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK- I'll say low to middle budget. No camping or anything like that!! Can be in the US or other..... anywhere but tropical... I get really sick in tropical places. We wanted to go to ireland but it's looking like it would be about expensive due to the Euro dollar rate.
Any suggestion for something for under $2,000 for a week thats nice?
It would be in NOV 2007

2006-10-10 09:25:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok. Well lately I feel like my guy from two months has been rejectitng me. He is always telling me that he is tired ( which is understandable because he has a business) or that he has a headache. I mean we were intimate the first time about two wks ago. But to me it is very important in a relationship. He always finds an excuse about it. Sometimes he notices that I get mad, but I dont feel comfortable talking about because I dont want him to think that I am crazy. But it is very important to me, because it makes me feel less than a women. If you know what I mean "rejected"

2006-10-10 09:25:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 09:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by rose v 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I walked out of a 4 years relationship.. He was the love of my life.. I loved everything about him,I left him because i wanted more out this relationship.He kept saying givie me time to settle down. I reached a point that i could not be bothered and got sick of waiting. So i had the courage to walk away of a relationship that meant the world to me.. Now its been 2 years and im so scared to go out with other men.. Am so afraid to get hurt again. Am not sure if i would ever let go of this fear. Im a very strong person in everything else in life.. but i can't stop feeling this way. What i would like to know is this Normal and how to finally live a normal life and be happy????

2006-10-10 09:24:20 · 3 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why am i still single? im far from ugly but im not bigheaded at all. im funny and caring ( everyone says so) but still no sign of mr right. Are all men wankers or are there any nice ones left out there????

2006-10-10 09:23:59 · 34 answers · asked by delaruedebbie 2 in Singles & Dating

Whats the best way to tell a guy thank you for making me chang my mind about guys and to know that all guys are not mean? Thanks.

2006-10-10 09:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girlfriend doesnt know it but iv her email password and msn too and i find dating site contacts on her msn plus emails from ex's calling her sexy this and sexy that. its a relationship all in her terms am i a mug that needs to dump her and be on my own to find myself or am i just paranoid?

2006-10-10 09:23:42 · 35 answers · asked by a_turkey 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I see in the halls of my high school.I see her everyday when I am going to my 5th period class. I do not know her name. We are not in any classes together and I don't know if she is in the 11th grade as me or in 12th grade. I think she is cute. I want to talk to her and try to become friends but I am not sure what I should do. Should I talk to her or not talk to her at all. What do you think I should do?
My friends say I should just talk to her but I am not sure if that is the right move. Am I wrong.

2006-10-10 09:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance was in a wedding and the Bride invited me to every single shower, I never even got to see a real wedding invitation tho! I got her all kinds of good presents, spent a pretty penny on them because they are good friends of mine. I felt like it was kinda rude tho because it seemed to me that she was ok with asking for presents, but they didnt want to spend the extra 1.50 to actually ask me to come to their wedding. I know it was implied that I would be their with my fiance, but it was obviously not implied for me to just come bring her presents--they made darn sure of that! I plan to make certain that everyone who is invited to a shower of mine gets a wedding invite! What are your feelings on it?

2006-10-10 09:22:10 · 28 answers · asked by ASH 6 in Weddings

2006-10-10 09:21:45 · 13 answers · asked by lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

there are personal issues regarding our friends that we want to interfere. there are matters of the heart, family problem and so on. knowing or seeing what their problems are, what are our limitations as a friend? how can we help them and put our concerns into consideration without annoying, hurting or being OA?

2006-10-10 09:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer 2 in Friends

this is a mean question, but what is the biggest insult you could tell a guy you have dated or slept with? guys, what is the most bruising thing a girl could say to hurt you?

2006-10-10 09:19:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

adknowledge that I have even asked a question. What do you do?

2006-10-10 09:18:57 · 7 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my husband for 11 years and i still find it really hard to talk to him about *** and the things i like and dislike have you ever had this prob and if so what have you done to over come it .can you give me any ways i could go about telling him how i feel with out hurting his feelings thanks .

2006-10-10 09:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by kristy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She came over and asked to borrow some lighter fluid and I let her in while I went to get it out of the garage... She was completely naked when I returned.. She got very upset that I did not have sex with her...Iam afraid that my wife will find out about this and think I did it with her.....I know my wife and she is very paranoid about the ladies I work with ...my buddies wives or girlfriends....She does not trust me ...and I have never cheated in the 13 years together...I could have many times but I have not....Should I tell my wife I want to but...I am afraid it will open up a a big mess ...she will think I lead her on or something ....the truth is best.. but I know my wife????

2006-10-10 09:17:24 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a four year old little girl from a pervious relationship, it didn't work out. A little after she was born he was put in jail for 15yrs. About one year after he was gone I met this really nice guy. We just had a baby a little girl. I ve been with him since my first child was one. So as you can see see bacisly see him as her dad. Just recently she started calling him daddy. Do you think it's right or wrong. My husband says that even though she's not his blood she is still his daughter. I don't know how I should handle this sitution.

2006-10-10 09:17:21 · 22 answers · asked by Christine M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does your husbands really think of your body during sex or in general after you have a baby or if you gain weight.

2006-10-10 09:17:14 · 11 answers · asked by Alicia W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do if i love the guy im dating but he is an @$$ and i like a guy i know from work and he is totally sweet....only problem is he has a daughter....what should i do..im tired of being treated like crap but i also love this guy(the one im dating) with all my heart and wouldnt know what to do if we broke up...please help

2006-10-10 09:16:51 · 8 answers · asked by Licia 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if you are headed for one????

2006-10-10 09:16:43 · 7 answers · asked by nycgrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why should girls be supportive of there boyfriends incapability of being faithfull?boys who cheat are clearly not being supportive of there girlfriends feelings and needs! perhaps i've just answered my own question about my own boyfriend,lol. but to say its what boys do is an absolute cop out. perhaps girls should start cheating on there cheating boyfriends,see how they like it. saying that cheating boyfriends probably wouldnt be that bothered would they,still it might be fun to find out.

2006-10-10 09:16:42 · 4 answers · asked by VIXEN 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 09:16:28 · 13 answers · asked by My 1 in Singles & Dating

What I mean by deadbeat dad is a "man" who not only chooses not to support their children financially, but are also absentee fathers as well. These are "men" who abandon their daughters and sons, and if they do have any contact with them, they show very little interest in being engaged in their childrens' lives. For the record, I am not a single mom, but the grown child of a "father" that never showed any interest in supporting me financially or emotionally. Why do SO MANY men do this to their own children and have no guilt about it?

2006-10-10 09:16:20 · 14 answers · asked by sadinLA 2 in Family

Well mine has lasted about two weeks and i just don't feel like not being around anyone or even getting up in the morning. What should i do?

2006-10-10 09:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by maeghan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How so?

2006-10-10 09:15:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 09:15:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up back in May because he was going away to Huston for school and I'm in New Mexico. He didn't want to go through the distance thing. I know I still have feelings for him. He still trys to stay in touch as much as possible but it's really hard because of our busy schedules. Last time I saw him we had a great night together. Everything just seems right when I'm with him. And even though that was to be the last time I would ever see him he is still trying to make an effort to see me again possibly this weekend and again during christmas and he wants me to go see him for spring break. I havent had an actual conversation with him in like a month so I dont know if things are still the same. I he tells me I need to move on and to go find me a guy. I dont want to because I'm afraid I'll never find someone that can treat me as good as he did. I've tried dating other ppl but I find myself comparing them to him. What should I do?

2006-10-10 09:15:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend's parents got divorced and she's very upset. So, every time I see her, I let her complain and cry. I listen to her every time she's upset. I went to a sleepover at her house two nights ago and she invited another friend, who took out my friend's birds and let them fly loose. I was tired, so i was laying down, and they were both screaming and jumping all over the room. My friend ended up getting grounded.

\I was waiting for the late bus today and this girl walks up to me and goes, "Are you Jess?" and I said, "Yeah."

And she told me that my "friend" had apparantly been telling everyone about how it was all my fault that she got grounded, and how I wouldn't do anything and I was a bore and a ***** and all of that crap. She said that my friend has been talking trash about me ever since the sleepover. And she's really pissed at me. What did I do??? And I'm pissed at her now, because I didnt do anything to deserve her telling rumors aboutu me. I trusted her and she broke it

2006-10-10 09:15:15 · 15 answers · asked by Shrinkydinks 2 in Friends