I dont know what to make of the whole thing. idont see her as being older, and she doesnt look it at all. we've been together about 3-4 months now and im falling in love with her. so should i persue this or drop it?
2006-10-10 09:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by defensor-fortis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pursue it baby.....you're age diff. isn't anything. If you like her then continue. DON'T MAKE A MISTAKE!! Go with your heart.
2006-10-10 09:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a woman that is closer to her age I would think that she might worry that since you are young you still have so much to experinece. She remembers what it was like to be 21 and how many times she has changed her mind about guys and relationships since then. The other thing is that she has been "in the real world" for awhile. I would assume that if she is 28 she has been on her own for a bit longer then you have and has more baggage.
I think that the age difference is quite large and that unless you are particularly mature for your age--you might end up hurting this woman
2006-10-10 16:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bridget S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you be ready and able to get married and have babies with her? She's pushing 30 and will probably expect that within 1-2 years. Can you afford a wife & kids, or would a 19-20 year old girl be more compatible?
(Frankly, I think she's a bit too old to be with a 21 year old- she really should find a man around 30-32-- 10 years OLDER than you.)
2006-10-10 16:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big deal. My sister is 32 her fiance is 24. They have been dating for four years and are very happy. Age is just a number.
2006-10-10 16:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jen G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should persue her, you love her, be with her. I hope you both have a wonderful relationship together. I think it is great that you are falling in love with her. I hope you marry her and enjoy your life with her alway........... good luck, Blessed be.
2006-10-10 16:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isn't about age. If u love her then what's the problem? there isn't a big difference. If u love her forget hte difference. Just enjoy each other's company and spend time with her. Good Luck!
2006-10-10 16:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y drop it?u love her dont u?age is nothin buh a number dont let it bother u mate.If u feel it's right4u,go 4 it.
2006-10-10 16:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am almost 28 and my husband is 21.we have a wonderful marriage! if you care for her,pursue it.other peoples opinion about your age difference dont matter either!good luck!
2006-10-10 16:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by sexxxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen - age doesn't matter! especially when u r 18+
so don't worry and go 4 it!
best wishes
ali shkodrova
2006-10-10 16:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you should go for it. If you feel it in your heart to be with her, then follow your heart. Love sees no age it just happens.
2006-10-10 16:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by foundiniraq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋