My friend's parents got divorced and she's very upset. So, every time I see her, I let her complain and cry. I listen to her every time she's upset. I went to a sleepover at her house two nights ago and she invited another friend, who took out my friend's birds and let them fly loose. I was tired, so i was laying down, and they were both screaming and jumping all over the room. My friend ended up getting grounded.
\I was waiting for the late bus today and this girl walks up to me and goes, "Are you Jess?" and I said, "Yeah."
And she told me that my "friend" had apparantly been telling everyone about how it was all my fault that she got grounded, and how I wouldn't do anything and I was a bore and a ***** and all of that crap. She said that my friend has been talking trash about me ever since the sleepover. And she's really pissed at me. What did I do??? And I'm pissed at her now, because I didnt do anything to deserve her telling rumors aboutu me. I trusted her and she broke it
2006-10-10 09:15:15 · 15 answers · asked by Shrinkydinks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would talk to her and get this straightened out. If you guys don't work it out, then I would let her be. Maybe after she gets through this divorce issue she will act more normal and re-contact you.
2006-10-10 09:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by gator girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her. It sucks when your best friend spreads rumors about you but it is normal. Go up to her and tell her htat you cannot trust her anymore if she keeps spreading rumors abotu you getting her grounded and that if anything, she should be talking about the girl that actually let them out in the first place. Hope everythign works out
2006-10-10 09:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Meg Kenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the lesson. First confront her about it to find out if it's true (I can't imagine it wouldn't be true, given what the other girl told you), and then if it is true . .
Avoid her, find yourself some friends (or "a" friend), who won't treat you like that and someone that is worthy of your trust (this person obviously isn't worthy of your trust).
And whatever you do, don't ever TELL her anything you don't want the world to know, cause you know you can't trust her for anything, let alone to not spread vicious gossip about you.
I think I'd just avoid her for good and forget about it. . eventually you won't even remember her name. .
go find some REAL friends (there ARE some wonderful people out there, people who are real friends, and will act like it)
good luck and God bless you.
2006-10-10 09:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Wayne A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her about it because you are right you didn't do anything wrong and she deff shouldn't be spreading rumors about you. If you ask me she sounds like a bad friend, you let her cry on yor shoulder then she turns and spreads rumors about you. Just confront her about it and if you want my honet opinion i wouldn't be friends with her anymore. There was no reason for her to spread rumors when you didn't do anything.
2006-10-10 09:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by maeghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 03:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sheez a biotch!screw her.my bff did the same thing to me only said everything to my face and told me not to get mad at her.i was then she said sorry the next day and i said fine and she even made me cry.she said some hurtful things.and i regret being friends w/ her. plus you didn't do a damn thing.drop her like a rock.she's no good.
2006-10-10 09:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by ~Bubblii~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's apparent that this girl is NOT your friend and you should stop referring to her as one. Let it go. It's not worrying over and is very petty if you think about it. Don't go around her or help her out anymore.
2006-10-10 09:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's talking trash about you then shes not truly a friend, a friend never talks about you!!
2006-10-10 09:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly said those things she is no friend..But you need to find out first
2006-10-10 09:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by dwh12345 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you need to 4-get about her. And get a real "TRUE" friend. she just needs to grow up, just think "little girl"
2006-10-10 09:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by missouri girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋