Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

My BF is an alcoholic. He admits to it. The good part (if you can call it that) he always drinks at home, NEVER drives, holds a good job, is an excellent employee and is the sweetest man ever when he's sober.
The bad part is having to watch him self destruct, ruin his health, we can never go anywhere at night because he is drunk and sometimes when he's drunk he starts fights that turn into MAJOR battles.
I know that it's the alcohol that makes him act this way, but at times I really can't deal with it.

I know they have groups for alocoholics, but does anyone know of a group to help me deal with an alcoholic BF?

2006-10-10 09:46:25 · 13 answers · asked by MCS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1.I've found a Text Mssg from him to a female that said "Hey Sexy
2.Found a Recpiet for condoms
3.I set up a fake account on Myspace and he sent me his number.

2006-10-10 09:46:17 · 14 answers · asked by Shaun 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

really funny but kind of ugly?

2006-10-10 09:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its suppose to be a web site on how to marry a philippna also looking for what documents that are required also coasts.

2006-10-10 09:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

they have to be over 35 but many people think i am soooo bad please help !!!

2006-10-10 09:44:57 · 9 answers · asked by real blonde 3 in Singles & Dating

The usual signs... phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My
wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask
their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know
them."

I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always
walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has
gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi? I
once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went
berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was
I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep
down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out
again and I decided to really check on her. I decided I was going to park
my Harley Davidson motorcycle next to the garage and then hide behind it
so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was
at that moment, crouching behind my Harley, that I noticed that the valve
covers on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?

2006-10-10 09:44:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 09:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The other day when me and my partner of 4 years sat down and discussed our true feelings for each other I explained to him that I still love him as a person because we've been together for so long, but that I'm no longer IN love with him. He didn't seem to comprehend that concept of love vs. being IN love and said to him there is no difference between the two. "Either you love or you don't" he said. To me those are two distinct feelings. Is this a man thing or am I the crazy one here? I'd like for men to answer, but if the ladies have any input feel free to answer as well.

2006-10-10 09:44:32 · 8 answers · asked by october g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he doen't know that i have been trying that long to see him and he sent me a letter via my 3rd lawyer.that he doesn't want to see me.and not to bring his mother to court.i'm am completly beside myself on what to do next.i can't wait any longer. the mother had totaly brainwashed him had said all kinds of bad things about me to him

2006-10-10 09:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by rick7425rick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there are personal issues regarding our friends that we want to interfere. there are matters of the heart, family problem and so on. knowing or seeing what their problems are, what are our limitations as a friend? how can we help them and put our concerns into consideration without annoying, hurting or being OA?

2006-10-10 09:44:12 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer 2 in Friends

i have a small mouth and i was wondering how i can give a ******* and keep my teeth out of the way so i dont hurt him.

2006-10-10 09:44:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hear people say things like, POLICE OFFICER ARE A HOE< THEY ARE FREAKS< THEY CANNOT HAVE ONLY ONE ONE. Then I hear womens say I would love to have a one nite stand with a cop is all those things true. ANY IDEAS

2006-10-10 09:44:02 · 3 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Singles & Dating

for the average american, how long does the process of having sex take? my guess would be somewhere between 30 minutes to 2 hours. but i dont know, i want everyone's opinion.

2006-10-10 09:44:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I hear people say things like, POLICE OFFICER ARE A HOE< THEY ARE FREAKS< THEY CANNOT HAVE ONLY ONE ONE. Then I hear womens say I would love to have a one nite stand with a cop is all those things true. ANY IDEAS

2006-10-10 09:43:48 · 4 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

he said that i was all he thought about for the 6 months we were apart.anyways we're bak together and he makes these promises and breaks them.and he doesnt talk to me when im around or whatever. then the other day he said he was gonna call me and he never did and hes done that plenty of times and i just brush it off. then i commented him on myspace saying that i loved him and when i go back to comment him again i see that my comments are deleted.im just sick of him acting like he doesnt care.today i said i think we need 2 break up and then he goes why and i go i dont know and then i say dont u think we should and he goes no but if u want to then ok.and he acts likee he has not time forr me and hes always short with me when i try to make conversation.so what do i do.????

2006-10-10 09:43:39 · 6 answers · asked by RubyRed91 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bf I like him a lot but there is this other guy that I like too and I like the guy sense the beginning of the year before I met my bf then I thought the guy didn't like me so I started to like my bf and then after few weeks my bf asked me out and now it's being 3 weeks we're together and the guy is my friend today he told me he likes me what to do I still like the guy but I don't want to cheat on my bf oh my god please help (don't be mean) I like them both
I know what u guys are going to say go with the one u like the most stay with ur bf but I can't I like both the same and I see the guy everyday and he makes me happy but I don't want to cheat help please (by the way I'm 15 and i'm in grade 10)

2006-10-10 09:43:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he gets so jealous of mexican men with tattos im a babyface lover with lots of tats i like the thugish type man and hes so opposite. older than me by 14 years.but hes an ***.

2006-10-10 09:43:21 · 15 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See my friends got married one friend happens to be my boss. But her Partner is cheating and told me all about it. Now they have broken up but the cheater is trying to get back with her do I tell her the truth and save her more heart ache?? Or do I not tell and let her go back and get cheated on??

2006-10-10 09:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for my family. Don't keep in touch with that side, and just wondered if anybody out there was my blood!!!!

2006-10-10 09:41:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-10 09:41:04 · 10 answers · asked by boxer 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i went to meet my friend yesterday after she got out of work and just talk and we have had tension for a while and so we kissed and she wanted to hangout w/ me at a friends so i brought her over and my friend was hintin at somethin to happen between us so when i dropped her off she just hugged me and seemed like she wanted to leave quickly...the kiss was brief and i know im not a sloppy kisser anyway, and now she wont talk to me much when i im her and yesterday she was ok...do u think she feels pressure, awkward, or just plain out regrets it? i wanna ask her but i wanna do it when the time is right, but i just wanted some outside opinion

2006-10-10 09:40:50 · 13 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do,I really like a guy but dont know about him he says he doesnt want to lead me on but if we wait something might happen over time.then when is drunk he tells me how lucky he is & that im most genuie person he ever met.

Thing he is worried is that i have a bf who im going 2 break up with any day now but the guy im seeing is worried cause he was with a girl who missed him after he finished with her he found out she had a bf but im not going 2 mess him i told him that & he knows i like him alot. We havent had sex yet we had time when we could have but we just didn't so he is not in it for sex.

2006-10-10 09:40:42 · 14 answers · asked by margaret f 1 in Singles & Dating

How many are in this suitation?

and have u compromised?

2006-10-10 09:40:33 · 18 answers · asked by Lady Love 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married and mostly happy except our sex life is lacking, so I began an affair to be satisfied sexually and have fallen in love with the man I am having an affair with. I do love my husband and he is a good man and wonderful father. Everytime I mention there is something wrong with our sex life he gets defensive, so I feel as if I were driven to the arms of another man. I do love them both and now am on an emotional roller coaster.

2006-10-10 09:40:31 · 19 answers · asked by fatt_bottom_girl2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About three years ago, I was violated by a family friend, im 22 now and I think it still bothers me, to the point where its hard for me to be intimate with guys, but Im working on it. The problem is, my current bf doesnt seem to understand that im just not ready, he knows im not a virgin and ive tried to explain how i felt but he says we need to have sex. What do you guys think, is he right and should just get over it?

2006-10-10 09:39:47 · 42 answers · asked by SHE HATE ME 5 in Singles & Dating

i cant think for myself or speak to another man even at a grocerie store am i stuck or will he change? i love him but hes wacked help me out here k

2006-10-10 09:38:59 · 24 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 14 year old son Mark has started teasing my 11 year old daughter Rebecca whenever they're taking a bath because she's started puberty and it's beginning to show.

Mark has already been through puberty, and since he knows it's a tough time, he's been teasing her. And Lord knows that girls are overly sensitive about their bodies at this age. For example, he'll give her a "titty-twister" (that's what he calls it) or he'll yank on her pubic hair until she starts to cry.

How can I get them to get along? I'm just at the end of my tether here. Their father walked out on us several years ago, so I don't get no help. What can I, as a single mother, do?

2006-10-10 09:38:46 · 39 answers · asked by LaDeen 1 in Family

no one at my school likes me as more then a friend. i have almost all girl friends, and they are all taken so it makes me feel excluded when i hang out with them becasue all they talk about is their boyfriend. I cant get anyone to date me and my friend says that i am stuid to think that, but its true. well i just dont know what to do anymore.

if anyone would like to see me, look at my myspace and add me if you have one

www.myspace.com/punk_drunk_punk_romance

2006-10-10 09:38:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

among a group of friends

2006-10-10 09:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by Glenn M 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay everyone... I was in my boyfriend's parents bathroom and saw a bottle of prescription prozac. I don't think he knows that one of his parents takes medication. I've kept my mouth shut so far- I wasn't SNOOPING, it was out in the open. Should I tell him?

2006-10-10 09:38:24 · 12 answers · asked by dre & ani 2 in Other - Family & Relationships