I have a bf I like him a lot but there is this other guy that I like too and I like the guy sense the beginning of the year before I met my bf then I thought the guy didn't like me so I started to like my bf and then after few weeks my bf asked me out and now it's being 3 weeks we're together and the guy is my friend today he told me he likes me what to do I still like the guy but I don't want to cheat on my bf oh my god please help (don't be mean) I like them both
I know what u guys are going to say go with the one u like the most stay with ur bf but I can't I like both the same and I see the guy everyday and he makes me happy but I don't want to cheat help please (by the way I'm 15 and i'm in grade 10)
2006-10-10 09:43:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetheart at 15 you should not have a "steady bf". don't get me wrong at what i am about to say. this is a mama speaking. you are young, you have your whole life ahead of you. can't a girl have more then one friend to hang out with. why get serious about one.if a 15 year old guy is not mature enough to understand that you needs friends in life,so be it.and 3 weeks. how much have you found out about this guy. please don't say that you have already been sexual active. that should be the last thing on your mind.take your time enjoy life. you will soon discover that time passes by real fast
2006-10-10 09:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a very simular situation... I was "seeing" this girl Megan or a few weeks, nothing serious, just goofing around with one another... well, one day, I met this girl named Katie, and we hit it off... Katie actually asked me out, so we were now BF and GF.... I continued being friends with Megan, no fooling around, just friends... well one day, when we were hangning out, I started feeling really strong about her again,... we were about to kiss, but I pulled away, I realized that Megan was never that into me, yeah we goofed around, but Katie actually went one step further and wanted to develop something more with me..... one year later, we got engaged... I'm so happy I never went down the road of temptation.....
your BF feels something for you, it's still early I know, but he had the guts to actually try and develop something with you, this other guy didn't.... trust me, stick with what you know, stick with what you got.... how would you feel if you were in his situation.... you need to sit back, and look at your current BF, if the only reason you want to break up with him, is just for the chance with this other guy.. then you don't deserve your current BF... and be prepared for a lifetime of dissapointment....
2006-10-10 16:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nick S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should focus on your education. You have more than enough time to worry about who to date.
2006-10-10 16:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋