I dont know what to do,I really like a guy but dont know about him he says he doesnt want to lead me on but if we wait something might happen over time.then when is drunk he tells me how lucky he is & that im most genuie person he ever met.
Thing he is worried is that i have a bf who im going 2 break up with any day now but the guy im seeing is worried cause he was with a girl who missed him after he finished with her he found out she had a bf but im not going 2 mess him i told him that & he knows i like him alot. We havent had sex yet we had time when we could have but we just didn't so he is not in it for sex.
2006-10-10 09:40:42 · 14 answers · asked by margaret f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4got he is my friends brother
2006-10-10 09:51:20 · update #1
This guy is just using you..you must be giving him somethimg like money or a place to go because he is not interested in you one little bit..tell this loser to beat it.
2006-10-10 09:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with your current bf finish it with him regardless of whether you are gonna get with this new man.
So he is worried, I would be too!! You are in a relationship, that means something to some people. He might think that you will cheat on him, if you ever got together.
Take things slow, and see what happens
2006-10-10 16:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are We talking about cars.
We buy one car before we sell the existing one.
You are dealing with your relationship in the same way. you are playing and treating human ss objects. Don't you?
If you don't like the person you are with, then just leave him and then search for another one.
And don't try to convince the second guy you are seeing. Because it sounds you may get him, but for one night or short period of time. For sure Its not going to work.
2006-10-10 16:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ramesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really confused by the second paragraph, it doesn't make sense. That said, you should always end one relationship before you start another. Break up with the bf and then just see what happens with the new guy.
2006-10-10 16:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both need to cut ties with present or past partners and see what happens.if you take out all the problematic parts then you'll be left with just the 2 of you to decide what happens with your future. start a fresh with no ties to the past. and as for him saying stuff when he's drunk,its normal.for anyone.the truth comes out when you've had a couple good luck to the pair of you.
2006-10-10 16:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by VIXEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooer im as confused as you are now sorry take your time let things calm down and look at things in the light of day is he what you want are you what he wants give it a week or two dont see him just wait then after two weeks arrange to meet if your tummy flips then go for it thats of course if he feels like you do ?
2006-10-10 16:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be the most genuine person he's met.Wait,don't think about sex right now.Give him time and give yourself time.Also,check him out.Find out what type of person he is then make a decision.So don't worry about sex,think about a relationship between a women and a man.Just hug and kisses, NO SEX!
2006-10-10 16:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sorta have the same problem i'm having....u should talk to him and get to know him better; (I know everyone says this "Be brave and ask him out - it would be a great oppotunity to understand and get to know the guy...it's beta to know the guy more before you rush into anything!) But saying is easier than doing!
2006-10-10 16:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by saiyuki c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about boys, and try concentrating on your school work, particularly your English.
Your question makes no sense!!!!
2006-10-10 16:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it as friends because this guy seems to be messing you around or doesnt know where his head is....???
2006-10-10 16:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋