Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

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2006-10-09 13:16:06 · 13 answers · asked by malibu1 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf is having another man who is interested in her, ...he is calling all the time, chat with her very often, invite her over ...My gf told me all those things ...But yet she said she loves me ....But she didn't seriously told the other guy that she has a bf, and let him take advantage ...Although I know about this situation, I am staying calm and trying not to be jealous ..I am testing her to see if she really loves me ...We have a some religious conflict in our relationship, but I think we both each other ..I am trying not to be jealous, because I can't fight for her , because I cannot fight religious and jealousy problems at the same time ...But what do you think of that situation ...she said she appreciates the guy , but not in love with me ..Is it a sign that she wants to dump me ..? or that she is not in love anymore ..? and I am trying not to be jealous about that ...is it a good reaction from me or should I react on that ?

2006-10-09 13:15:42 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if he is gay when he hasn't come out, but you kinda think he will eventually. He is homophobic. Please no stupid answers. You can't tell just by looking at him. He is not like that. A gay friend of mine said he might be when they first met, not he has sparked some curiousity in me.

2006-10-09 13:14:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 13:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have some family members that are just too nosey. Any suggestions for books or any advice on how to handle these type of people. I don't really like confrontation but I would like ot know how to let them know that certain things just are not their business.

2006-10-09 13:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by Vi 2 in Family

I'm 22, and I've never had a real boyfriend. I start talking to a guy and then I just get tired or bored with them after a while. Maybe I'm too picky, I'm not sure. I don't want to keep going through this though; I feel shallow. Any advice?

2006-10-09 13:13:04 · 8 answers · asked by ♥michele♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 13:12:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-09 13:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend lives with his babymomma but she knows about me and hates me with a passion. This has been going on for about a year and some change. He comes and stays with me some nights and we're ALWAYS together. Am I stupid for staying with this person or is it true love?

2006-10-09 13:10:37 · 39 answers · asked by achick1984 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know because the men i have been with in the pass has cheated an all got found out bout an lied.

2006-10-09 13:09:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does this mean? should i call her back or ignore it?
what does this mean?
i was with my ex for nearly 5 years. he left me about 8 months ago. we were still kinda in contact, mainly him contacting me and then when i contacted him he got annoyed and said he was cutting all contact. he said he was changing his number and email and not having any contact with me. well the other night me came online for about 10 mins but he couldnt see me coz i blocked him. then the next day his cousin tryed to call me. and then the following day she rang a few times in the morning but didnt leave a msg so i didnt call her back. would he be behind his cousin contacting me? and what does this mean? i thought maybe she wanted to yell at me or maybe there was something rong eith him. but he said he was cutting all contact so im sonfused

2006-10-09 13:07:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my best friend whom I love dearly has this whole soap opera going on in her life. She is living with her boyfriend (they were married 4 years ago, but got divorced after 18 months) They had a child from the first marriage, then split up, she got pregnant by another guy, they split up, and now is back with original husband/boyfriend. The thing is he is a total JERK!! He was remarried 2 MONTHS after they were divorced the first time, left his 2nd to be with her. He has a child with her. He does not see that child. Now he is back with my best friend, and he treats her like crap. She found out he had a girlfriend on the internet (she found the number in his pocket), he told her he hates her cooking and would rather eat at his mom's. His parents hate her, and she is now pergnant for the 3rd time. She won't leave because she says she has nowhere to go, can't afford to work (daycare would be too much) and no man would take her with 3 kids. I am getting so fed up with the whole thing!

2006-10-09 13:06:30 · 1 answers · asked by Goldylocks 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

this question is for a friend.she is married and cheated on her husband,even got pregnant and doesn't know whose the baby's father.She also caught an STD.She never told her husband about anything.on the day of delivery for the baby,her husband saw on paper works that she was treated for an std.Now the baby is here,and her husband wants nothing to do with her and the baby,even if the perternity said its his.Now hes filing for a divorce,and she doesn't want that.As a friend to her,can u help me give her some advice?

2006-10-09 13:06:21 · 20 answers · asked by lovegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

keeps trying to hook me up with other guys and even though some of them are really cute i cant bring myself to go out with any of thm wat do i do?

2006-10-09 13:05:52 · 6 answers · asked by confused_blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 13:04:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I will be celebrating our first wedding anniversary and would like to do something extra special, something that we wouldn't usually do on any other weekend or previous special occasions. We are willing to travel, but no more than 2-3 hrs to celebrate our special weekend.

2006-10-09 13:04:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend dumped me after only two weeks and he never told me why. I had really liked him and I thought maybe I wasn't hot or popular enough for him. But can a guy like a girl for a personality and not just how she looks and her popularity?

2006-10-09 13:04:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes moving in 9 weeks.i love him so much!

2006-10-09 13:03:57 · 8 answers · asked by troyluva80 2 in Singles & Dating

Is This Cute?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPnIxm1OPgM

I think so.

2006-10-09 13:03:56 · 7 answers · asked by sbubbles24 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I find a girlfriend that can blow huge bubble gum bubbles for me? I think that's awesome.

2006-10-09 13:03:25 · 3 answers · asked by sbubbles24 1 in Singles & Dating

well my very best friend and i aren't so close anymore and i don't know what to do...i mean she always uses me for my things and i don't know wat to do anymore..i still see her as a good friend but other people say don't trust her...WHAT DO I DO? HELP??

2006-10-09 13:03:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married for 6 years to a guy I met in high school. We were each other's first. I guess I am what you call a late bloomer. I have always been heavy and due to a dramatic lifestyle change, I am now considered very thin. For the first time men find me very attractive. Last Christmas eve, my husband drank a lot at my parents. When we got home, he shocked me by saying he would like to see me with another man. I changed the subject because I didn't want to seem eager, but it intrigued me. He never brought this up again. My husband doesn't like the club scene so I go out with co-workers and he trusts me completely. One co-worker gave me a ride home and we got some tall boys and sat and talked. He ended up taking it out. I told him what he already knew, that I was married. My sister's husband is African American and told me they were big, but I had no idea. I am curious and would like to bring up my husband's proposal. How could I bring this up again to him?

2006-10-09 13:02:55 · 7 answers · asked by We're Making Paper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well, im 13, and therte is this boy in my class that today i was like "omg, i like him!" we've been friends for a while now. I asked him who he liked and he said "well, shes in this class (check!), she's in band (check again!) and shes close by (check check check!!!!!)" i said "would you tell me?" and he said "idk..." then he blurted it out, "i like Amanda" (thats not my name)
should i still like him even though he likes another?
i made a letter to him that took 2 hours to make... it had magazine letters glued to it...
"my mind is so confused
a girl with eyes so sad
longs for you.
you said you would fall out of a window
to make my laugh.
love me instead"
i am told that i have a smile so warm but eyes so sad and cold. he keeps on saying "georgia, would you smile if i fell out of the window? If i did something funny?"
i didnt sign it.. i think he would know who it was from. should i sign it anyway? and how should i give it to him? just hand it over, or place it on his desk?

2006-10-09 13:02:46 · 1 answers · asked by Gale 3 in Singles & Dating

People say that you just need to be patient and that there will eventually be love in your life, but I've heard that for years. I'm a confident, healthy, intelligent man, who believes in romance and trust in a relationship. In the past 20 years, I have not found a woman who views those things as being important.

Is it time to give up and acknowledge that I'll be alone for the rest of my life?

2006-10-09 13:01:58 · 39 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know he says he never really loved her and that she disgusts him but he hates talking about her and their relationship AT ALL because he says he hates his past and his decision to marry her in the first place. Still, it seems like he could talk canditly about it, I have talked to him about relatiosnhips I have hated. Just think its wierd. maybe a guy thing?

2006-10-09 13:01:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-09 13:00:23 · 11 answers · asked by Bright Eyes 4 in Singles & Dating

Well I am engaged happly. I love my fiance very much. I know he loves me. I have been hurt a lot in the past. Me and him have been together for almost a year. One day i told him i was leaving bc i was mad at his gramma and he begged me not to leave him bc he loves me and i am the only one for him.He cried bc he thought he was about to lose me. He is the only one for me as well. I just fear getting hurt but he always tells me he dont want anyone else.I dont find myself attractive, but he says that i am pretty sexy and all that. I dont want him to think any one else is prettier then me or better then me. He told me that wouldnt happen. Whenever i say something about him thinking something about someone else he gets mad at me and says im the ONLY one for him. i trust him. He always tells me he loves me like 20 times a day. Should i ask him once again if he is sure im the only one for him? Please dont be rude i am just afraid of getting hurt. Does anyone think he would leave me?

2006-10-09 13:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 12:59:26 · 27 answers · asked by hard_long76 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll make this short and sweet since it is my first question. How do I tell my girlfriend of 1 and a half years that I have a foot fetish? I'm worried she will think its' weird because she is very straight laced. I'm fine without the fetish and love everything about her, but would ike to tell her. What do you think?

2006-10-09 12:59:11 · 5 answers · asked by johnnycobracage 1 in Singles & Dating

i was talking with my man on the phone and he said hes gonna make me jealous cuz its a part of his plan.Why would he wanna make me jealous?if its to get revenge its not my fault men r alaways trying to holla at me,im not ttrying to make him jealous.

2006-10-09 12:58:34 · 9 answers · asked by isabella c 1 in Singles & Dating