what does this mean? should i call her back or ignore it?
what does this mean?
i was with my ex for nearly 5 years. he left me about 8 months ago. we were still kinda in contact, mainly him contacting me and then when i contacted him he got annoyed and said he was cutting all contact. he said he was changing his number and email and not having any contact with me. well the other night me came online for about 10 mins but he couldnt see me coz i blocked him. then the next day his cousin tryed to call me. and then the following day she rang a few times in the morning but didnt leave a msg so i didnt call her back. would he be behind his cousin contacting me? and what does this mean? i thought maybe she wanted to yell at me or maybe there was something rong eith him. but he said he was cutting all contact so im sonfused
2006-10-09 13:07:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he doesnt know what he wants. It would be best for you if you ignored him all together and moved on with your life. I know it is hard after being in the relationship for 5 years but he is the one that ended it. I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason...you may not know what that reason is right now but eventually you will.
2006-10-09 13:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by cherokee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear JUST ME,
From what you've described...your EX sounds a little like Dr, Jekyll & Mr. Hyde. He sounds like a confused, immature, control freak. He's given you orders do not call or try to contact him. Then he's complaining because he tried to call you and you've blocked him??? Forget about the cousin or anyone else getting involved do you really want or need this drama in your life? If I were you I'd move ahead , don't look back consider the 5 years you spent with him part of your education. He's your ex for a reason, don't you deserve better? Someone who knows what he wants and doesn't swing back and forth as much as your ex? Don't waste any more of your precious time trying to figure out his or his cousins erratic , strange behavior. Move on !!! And if they do happen to catch you--- simply say I've got to run. I'm meeting my new boyfriend for dinner and I don't want to keep him waiting. They should get the message unless they don't understand English,,,,,,,
2006-10-09 20:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is like when somebody breaks up with a person, just to see what they will do... to get their attention, to hurt them, or whatever. He was calling your bluff, and now he is probably sorry that he can't reach you.
What a lousy game of cat & mouse. If I were you, I'd just walk away from all that drama. Real men don't play games like that.
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2006-10-09 20:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to contact you, let him be the one to do it since HE is the one who cut it all off without any explanation. His cousion is just a go between for a cowardly ex boyfriend, don't play into it.
2006-10-09 20:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's changed his mind. Or maybe he just got a nasty message from his doctor and wants to make amends.
A discreet "how ya doin'" message to his cousin might be in order.
2006-10-09 20:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Boomer Wisdom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the contact cut...its him trying to see if u would still be there like a fall back plan
2006-10-09 20:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FIGURE IF SOMEONE DOESN'T LEAVE A MESSAGE I DON'T NEED TO RETURN THE CALL. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'S GOING ON WITH YOUR EX. YOU CAN ALWAYS TALK THROUGH YOUR LAWYERS. LET THEM TRY TO FIGURE IT OUT.
2006-10-09 20:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave sleeping dogs sleep
2006-10-09 20:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your self and don't play the game he is playing, you deserve better
2006-10-09 20:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋