My boyfriend dumped me after only two weeks and he never told me why. I had really liked him and I thought maybe I wasn't hot or popular enough for him. But can a guy like a girl for a personality and not just how she looks and her popularity?
2006-10-09 13:04:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a saying, because looks and personality are important to me.
I need to be physically attracted as well as mentally attracted to the person I am with.
"Your looks may get the first date, but your personality gets the second"
Many men arent like that, however be aware that some of us do exist
2006-10-09 13:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Sure, guys are more visually stimulated than girls are and for guys appearance may be more of a factor than for girls in deciding relationships, but in the end personality can trump looks. Afterall, what guy would want to go out with an extremely hot model or something if she had no depth or personality to her? It would be like talking to a brick wall, maybe an extremely hot brick wall, but a brick wall none the less. Also, beauty is in the eye of the beholder right? None of my girlfriends have been "hot" per se, but I have cared about them immensely and found them attractive and beautiful in their own ways.
2006-10-09 13:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by heartdrill4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What attracts people to each other in beginning? Simple looks! Now unless your over 30 that's first thing you see in a possible date! You cant get past that if someone finds you repulsive they are NOT going to date you unless drunk! No offense intended. People find out about the inside you later but you still must overcome the initial judgment of looks! Now perhaps a person is not real appealing right off but something attracts them that's a start. Once people mature they overcome that looks thing probably because they know their own looks aren't what they use to be. If your BF leaves find anew one but don't look for someone to see inner you right off it just wont happen
2006-10-09 13:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, guys should go more for personality than 4 looks! Y should u care if u aren't hot or popular... it shouldn't matter so much about how u look...that guy should love u from the heart not the mind. if a guy goes more for your personality, it can truly show that he is more interested in you as a person as a human and as someone he wants to be with...and that will always be better than someone who goes for looks! I wish I had a boyfriend who cared more about what was inside my heart, rather than what's underneath my clothes!
2006-10-09 13:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by hot_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course guys can.
Everyone's so big on the stereotype that that's all guys want, a hot girl and sex.
My girlfriend is nowhere near as good looking as my ex, but that's not stopping me from being with her.
She's got the most amazing personality in the world.
She's changed me so much for the better, just from me knowing her.
She's good looking, not popular, but very smart. But although it was her looks that attracted me to her, it's her personality that's making me propose to her :)
2006-10-09 13:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by godathonone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, looks are part of it, and some things are more important than others, but you really don't have to be a "10" to be lovable. My gf is in great shape, but isn't what would be considered classically pretty. She is very independent, has a good sense of humor, and is extremely smart, all which I happen to find attractive.
Good luck,
2006-10-09 13:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly! If she's clever but no interfare too much, she's humour and always left some face to others, and most important is very understanding and know how to appreciate....of course not too ugly lah....
2006-10-09 13:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by chow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wasn't right. Looks are important, of course, but nothing is more important than the heart
2006-10-09 13:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by mchav83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks are important, but so is personality. If the girl is hot, but a b*tch, you can count her off the list.
2006-10-09 13:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mike Oxlong 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well yeah but nice t and a helps. have you practiced your blo.jobs? you need a good all around package their to maintain a relationship. personality will only get you started. oh my truth hurts. damn i suck
2006-10-09 13:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by crank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋