I'll make this short and sweet since it is my first question. How do I tell my girlfriend of 1 and a half years that I have a foot fetish? I'm worried she will think its' weird because she is very straight laced. I'm fine without the fetish and love everything about her, but would ike to tell her. What do you think?
2006-10-09 12:59:11 · 5 answers · asked by johnnycobracage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her,most women love to have our feet loved,go for it!
2006-10-09 13:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build up to it slowly if she is as straight laced as you say. If you just pull it like a rabbit out of the hat you could scare her away. Instead, why not start by giving her some lovely foot massages while you all are watching TV together? Nothing overtly sexual, just really relaxing and loving massage. As she grows comfortable with this, you can gradually complement her feet and ease her into appreciating your passion.
2006-10-09 20:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Isis had a pretty good suggestion. Offer a foot rub sometime and comment that you like doing it for her. I certainly wouldn't use the word fetish in a sentence for a while. Perhaps just stating that you like rubbing her feet because you think they're sexy.
2006-10-10 21:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by heyhey022001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only one way to go with fetishes----
dont jump right into it---
let her know u are into something that a larger majority of people arent. Tell her that you are worried to tell her, because u dont want her to think that u are different...
im not sure that she will agree with the fetish---but she will probably understand
2006-10-09 20:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Soul-Unleashed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you plan on marrying her tell her asap
2006-10-09 20:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Enthusiast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋