A girl keeps asking me out, how can i turn her down without hurting her feelingd?

Answer 1

do you have a guy friend who likes this girl? try and set them up on a date. you might just have to bite the bullet and say you are a nice girl, but i'm not interested, in a kind way. good luck!

Answer 2

That's a tough one. You sound like a nice guy because you don't want to hurt her. Unfortunately, there's no way NOT to hurt her. You could (a) tell her straight up that you're not interested (but be gentle!!!) or (b) avoid her and eventually have to face her anyway. I think that choice (a) is the lesser of two evils. That way, you can let her down gently and she can move on to other prospects. If you avoid her, hoping she'll get the message, she'll miss out on other things and end up resenting you big time when it's all said and done. Good luck to you with whatever decision you make.

Answer 3

Most girls I know, when they like someone, like them a lot.
No matter how you turn her down, she's most likely going to be hurt, maybe even moreso if you tell her you have someone else.
There's the possibility that she starts to think about why she wasn't good enough but the other girl was.

Just let her know how things are.
You care enough about her feelings to not want to hurt her, why not just ask her to just hang out sometime instead, just as friends.
It might be a little awkward for her, but as long as she knows that you don't want nothing to do with her, it won't hurt her as badly.

Answer 4

I would say just let her know that you are flattered, but that you would rather just stay friends. Even if it does hurt her feelings, it's better to let her down once so she can move on rather than have her keep asking and asking with no response. It's also better than to say yes just to keep from hurting her feelings and end up going out once and then not again. I think she would be hurt more by that than just by telling her no to begin with. Good luck!

Answer 5

Be truthful and just tell her this is not a good time for you, that you couldn;t give a relationship what it needs. Tell you don't want to gyp her out of that, cause she could have a better relationship with another guy that would be much better, committed to her more than you can be right now.

Answer 6

If she is a real girl she will appreciate you all the more when you tell her: I thank you for asking and I'm flattered but it is impossible for me to accept because I am also looking for the perfect girl for me. I hope I have not offended you because that
was not my intention.
Don't say things like you want to be friends and all that garbage, it will only enrage her.

Answer 7

have you already turned her down b4? if so do it the same way!
If not just be honest with her and let her know that you just aren't interested. don't be harsh, but stand your ground and tell the truth. If she's like most girls, it would hurt her more if you go out with her just because you feel bad for her.

Answer 8

Okay, I hate to say this, but hurting her feelings is pretty unavoidable. All you can do is be polite and very clear- don't be ambiguous and let her keep thinking "maybe he means ???"
The nicest thing you can do is make it clear so that she will get the picture and quit asking you out!

Answer 9

Be honest. Honesty does not have to equal brutal ... Tell her that while you appreciate her persistance, You're not interested in a relationship with her. Offer friendship, nothing more. If that's not good enough for her then I s'pose thatd be her loss.

Answer 10

When you don't want to tell a girl that you're not interested in her, just go with the classic, "I'm gay...." They won't make a single question after that; even if they know you've had prior girlfriends.