Well I am engaged happly. I love my fiance very much. I know he loves me. I have been hurt a lot in the past. Me and him have been together for almost a year. One day i told him i was leaving bc i was mad at his gramma and he begged me not to leave him bc he loves me and i am the only one for him.He cried bc he thought he was about to lose me. He is the only one for me as well. I just fear getting hurt but he always tells me he dont want anyone else.I dont find myself attractive, but he says that i am pretty sexy and all that. I dont want him to think any one else is prettier then me or better then me. He told me that wouldnt happen. Whenever i say something about him thinking something about someone else he gets mad at me and says im the ONLY one for him. i trust him. He always tells me he loves me like 20 times a day. Should i ask him once again if he is sure im the only one for him? Please dont be rude i am just afraid of getting hurt. Does anyone think he would leave me?
2006-10-09 13:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he says that he loves you like 20 times a day,and that you are the only one for him.. this man has very strong feelings for you. he has been deeply fallin for you. he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.. is that not enough for you. he wants to make you very happy.he treats you right.does he not? dont ask him if he is sure that you are the only one for him,he has told you his feelings towards you. his love for you is true from his heart,and soul. just accept his honor for you. but like i said earlier do NOT ask him that question!
2006-10-09 13:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by sexysweet69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No do not ask him even once again about this per day! You shouldn't even have to hear it as much as you do. I understand that you have been hurt in the past but your questioning is actually pushy and very needy behavior. If you truly trust him, you shouldn't have to hear it that many times a day. It sounds like you have some huge self esteem and security issues. The answer to them is not hearing him tell you twenty times a day that he loves you. It sounds like you are holding onto the feelings you were left with after your last relationship. You should try to speak to a counselor to get a handle on these issues. Your behavior and neediness is very extreme and can ruin a relationship, even a strong one. You need to deal with the issues of your past relationships so you can move on in this relationship in a healthy way. You actions and need to constant reassurance can actually end up pushing him away. When you need to be reassured that much, it tends to make the other person start feeling like you do not trust them or their feelings, and that you are the only one who counts in the relationship.
2006-10-09 13:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one has the answers to life although the time spent with someone takes some of the guess work out of it.This guy sounds like he's sure and asking him too many times could cause a problem. In my 360 blog or page there's a saying that I live by. you should read it. it says risk takers might not live long but the cautious don't live at all! need to get right in your heart and let life flow. it's better to loose than to be a quitter, I think this guys on the up. but the choose is yours
2006-10-09 13:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by dhwilson58 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by chowning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know him well enough to know if he will leave you. but from what you said, i do not think so, but remember sometimes you have to get hurt a few times before you find true love.... but i have a quick question are you only staying with him because you think he is the only that will find you attractive????
2006-10-09 13:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, I tell my gf she's the only one because she IS the only one :) I'm also afraid of getting hurt but in a relationship you just have to hope for the best and do your best
2006-10-09 13:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by mchav83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C'mon honey ... get a grip ... ffs
put the baggage into storage
Dr BAd
2006-10-09 13:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to love liek you've never been hurt each time or you will never know the true meaning of love and you will miss out
2006-10-09 13:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really, really, really need professional counseling.
You are NOT "engaged happily". You aren't even in a real relationship.
2006-10-09 13:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋