I have been married for 6 years to a guy I met in high school. We were each other's first. I guess I am what you call a late bloomer. I have always been heavy and due to a dramatic lifestyle change, I am now considered very thin. For the first time men find me very attractive. Last Christmas eve, my husband drank a lot at my parents. When we got home, he shocked me by saying he would like to see me with another man. I changed the subject because I didn't want to seem eager, but it intrigued me. He never brought this up again. My husband doesn't like the club scene so I go out with co-workers and he trusts me completely. One co-worker gave me a ride home and we got some tall boys and sat and talked. He ended up taking it out. I told him what he already knew, that I was married. My sister's husband is African American and told me they were big, but I had no idea. I am curious and would like to bring up my husband's proposal. How could I bring this up again to him?
2006-10-09 13:02:55 · 7 answers · asked by We're Making Paper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why don't you just divorce him and be free to experiment all you want? It sounds like you want to go out and party and explore the world of men. I hope you find it enjoyable. Your husband has been faithful to you and only suggested something when he was drunk. You on the other hand have been going out "with the girls" and meeting men. He deserves to be treated better than that.
By the way, why do you think a black man is going to be bigger? My tall, thin, white guy is 10" long and 6" around. I don't need anything bigger than that!
2006-10-09 13:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will tell you this don't even do this because although your husband brought it up when it happens it will be totally different situation and your husband might not like it i mean this is crazy all i can say is walk softly because this might back fire
2006-10-09 13:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it but don't be surprised if hes not enthusiastic about it ... i would just take it as a compliment and leave it alone
2006-10-09 14:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by honeybuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol talks not the person. if you want to do that then you should leave your husband. he may have said that just to test you. don't push it.
2006-10-09 13:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by melanie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if any man asked me to be with another so he can get his groove on/ I'd tell him to f---- off-(drunk or not) then I'd divorce his a-- so fast / and hang out w/ a real man!
2006-10-09 13:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might try by asking him if he would like to be with another woman in front of you
2006-10-09 13:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say HIV/AIDS?
2006-10-09 14:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Boggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋