So I have been dating this guy for about a month, and he has been great about including my 1 year old son in our relationship. he plays with him and is good to him and even let him come on our first date.
the thing is, i don't want to push him to include my son all the time. it's not his son and i don't want him to feel like i am trying to make it that way. so i'm always asking if it's okay that my son come with me when i come over, if he can tag along, etc etc. but i think by trying not to push the relationship between them i am offending him more. like today i said i wanted to vaccum his house because his foot is broken and he can't, and i said it's not good for orion to be crawling around with mystery stuff on the floor. then i said, "that is, if orion is even allowed over. i mean he doesn't have to come." and he got kinda mad and was like "why wouldn't orion be allowed at my house?"
so i think i offended him. any thoughts???
2006-10-09
13:31:56
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