2006-10-09 13:32:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg i'm so sorry its suppose to be slob and should sorry
2006-10-09 13:50:57 · update #1
You might want to think again about telling him!
First thing what is he supposed to do when you tell him what she said? This is his mother.
Also don't you feel she has more then likely has said this to every girl he had home to meet mom.
I am sure he knows all to well as to how his mother is! By telling him you are asking him to get involved. Leave the guy out of it, and if the mother wants to "play" you can play these games too!
The mother has issues, this has nothing to do with you. This lady feels know one is worthy of her son. You are a threat to this lady, you are taking her "baby" away.....
Good luck
2006-10-09 13:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what his mother said and that you do not appreciate it Maybe he can talk to her about it . If you guys are gonna get married she has to have some type of respect for you. All mothers think that there sons are too good for anyone but its up to you to prove you are not what she says. If he loves you alot he'll put his mother in her place right away. As for you , don't say anything to her , let him deal with his mom. Good Luck 2 you
2006-10-09 20:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. i think he needs to know those things so he can sort things out between u guys, and also in the mean time act very sophisticated,and don't be rude or don't be a pig or gross or say stupid things,and just be yourself. well don't be yourself if u really r a slop =-) well good luck! p.s. and get her life a little gift, like a box of chocolates. hehe
2006-10-09 20:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by crazychik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. tell HER to bug off, climb a rock, or anything else you can think of. your guy knows you are a slob by now and seems to be ok with it. Or else your values are differant. maybe she's a neat freak. still telling the guy will serve no benefit.
2006-10-09 20:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by La-z Ike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as kind as you can toward your fiance's mom and they way you present her actions to him. However, you will gain nothing by hiding things from him. You need to share everything at all times. Might as well start practicing now.
2006-10-09 20:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Nick â? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, mothers usually think that noone is good enough for there children. Don't put mom and son at war
2006-10-09 20:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, please tell him so that the two of you can clear the air with her together. If you are planning to marry, you must stand as a united force, but I hope things work out well for all of you because his mother is just as important to him as you are. He loves both of you, and both of you love him.
2006-10-09 20:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do not know you but what does she know? very provably does not even know what his son does, how he dates and so on, it really can happen that she ends with somebody more slop than you and then.....
She will remember what did she tell you
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2006-10-09 20:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that it would be quite healthy for you and you fiance to discuss this issue but remember one thing your marrying him not his mom and possibly shes just a little protective about who her son Marys and you just need to prove to her that you could be the perfect wife for her son and mother of his family
2006-10-09 20:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by rporpto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him but tell him not to say anything to her. Take care of it yourself and tell her why her son deserves a person like you. If that doesn't work out, prove it to her!
2006-10-09 20:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋