my bf called and my dad answered and im the baby in the family so i have it hard about haveing a bf and my dad doesnt want me to should i do it anyway?
2006-10-09 13:35:23 · 10 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok. That's code for "he's your brother!"
2006-10-09 13:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Saffernellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think you should go against your parents' wishes because you are still a minor and they probably have more experience than you have in the world, and they also may have the sense that this young man isn't suited to you. Maybe you three can reach a compromise, that you may see your boyfriend when supervised. Believe me, you don't want to do anything behind your parents' back, or against their wishes. They can make your life miserable, it's best to communicate openly, with each party listening to what the other has to say, and then reach a compromise.
I mean, you don't like your father talking to your boyfriend without your say, so he probably doesn't want you to go against his wishes in the same manner. It will hopefully work out if you are patient. I always didn't understand why I couldn't have boys up to my room even if I knew I wasn't going to do anything with them. But those were my mom's rules and I had to live by them until I moved out.
2006-10-09 20:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by CruelNails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should listen to your dad. He is only trying to protect you from things you probably don't need in your life right now. He's been a guy, so he knows what guys think - and want. There will be plenty of time for boyfriends in life, so be happy your dad cares about you. Some girls don't have a dad who cares at all, and they end up with losers, pregnant, etc.
2006-10-09 20:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not grammatically correct. It reads: "My dad talked to my boyfriend about dating me should I let them." Written like that it sounds like your asking us if you want to let your dad and your boyfriend date. For a more grammatically correct sentence, try this: "Should I let my dad talk to my boyfriend about dating me?" See how much more clear that question is? Now, forget about this dating thing and re-take your bonehead English classes again. Later.
2006-10-09 20:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by afreeman20035252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should not, and there is a very good trick for you to make him stop asking about it.
As he seems so interested, start telling him thing he does not want to hear, he fingers you you hook up, do not avoid any details. Soon he will stop bothering you believe me I have tried it and it works
2006-10-09 20:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it will help out the relationship in the future. if you do not let them speak your dad will think something strange is going on. your dad will not trust you if you do not.
2006-10-09 20:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by SANDRA Q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old you are,and even then you need to talk it over with Dad.
2006-10-09 20:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are. If you're 13, then no. If you're 33, then yes.
2006-10-09 20:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go behind his back, then later in life you will regret it.
2006-10-09 20:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-09 20:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by matthew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋