nice guys feel free to defend yourself. women take the time to think: is the saying "nice guys finish last" true? maybe now or in your past you secretly wanted a "bad boy"?
2006-10-09 13:33:54 · 11 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All girls want a bad boy .... when their heart has been broken enuff times .. they then want a nice guy .. then after their self esteem has been refilled ...they get bored and want bad boys again ..
Girls are also way too attracted to other girls men ... because basically girls hate each other... and are vain and too competitive
People get what they deserve .. or put up with
Dr Bad
Girl power specialist
2006-10-09 13:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's the fact that you CAN"T have them that turns you on. The fact that there is something so hot, so tempting, yet you can't ouch it that drives a women crazy. And the fact that he may not be available or that he is with someone, but he is looking at YOU or checkin' you out fuels the fire too...
I don't think that nice guys "finish last" so to speak, but when a women is ready to settle down seriously, this is the type of man they are generally looking for.
At one time or another, i think all men (even the nice guys) have all gone through a bad boy stage, but most of them eventually want to settle down too, therefore...they become a "nice guy."
2006-10-09 21:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say badboy at 21 = single imprisoned felon or fugitive at 35 with 5 illegitimate kids and a wifebeating rapsheet as long as your leg.
I say nice guy nerd at 21 = a settled, responsible guy with a good job, great wife and kids he can be proud of at 35.
You be the judge of who's finishing last.
2006-10-09 20:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by martino 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've heard many illogical answers to this, im a nice guy who is only thought of as a friend.
some answers i got were in this question.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjHxPfSAWJ3xYo3OCEA_m23sy6IX?qid=1006052122339
nice guys are always last in the long run. in my high school i see this everyday, but those few nice guys like me that are left are just there and its diminishing fast. the "old school gentlemen" are left in the dust and i have heard someone on this ask how to become a "bad boy" because of this.
good articles on this is here:
http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html
http://www.angelfire.com/vt2/g_hols/Niceguy
http://www.bash.org/?414593
2006-10-09 20:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone wants a bad boy now! Good boys do finish last, here is some advice to them TOUGHEN UP! Bad boys like to show off and play hard to get so that you do find them attractive!
2006-10-09 20:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Des 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what about men and pamela anderson? like they will ever get her. same thing. what you can't have looks the most attractive. bad boys are usually smooth talkers, and lotsa women like that over the mumbly nice guy. just a biological thing, guys love with their eyes, women with their ears.
2006-10-09 20:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by LadieVamp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like bad boys because of the challenge, they do not want someone they can walk over and they r not the average man. and it jus so happens that they r not available.
2006-10-09 23:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_love_vi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want wat u can't have...basically....there's a thrill when it comes to the whole bad boy thing. no nice guys don't always finish last sometimes they are just too afraid to even get in the race.
2006-10-09 20:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by Retarded Genius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that the fact that they are already taken and it is a challege to try and catch them.
2006-10-09 20:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by baretero22 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
who cares stay away
2006-10-09 20:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋