how can you telli like a guy who likes another girl... should i keep on liking him?

Question

well, im 13, and therte is this boy in my class that today i was like "omg, i like him!" we've been friends for a while now. I asked him who he liked and he said "well, shes in this class (check!), she's in band (check again!) and shes close by (check check check!!!!!)" i said "would you tell me?" and he said "idk..." then he blurted it out, "i like Amanda" (thats not my name)
should i still like him even though he likes another?
i made a letter to him that took 2 hours to make... it had magazine letters glued to it...
"my mind is so confused
a girl with eyes so sad
longs for you.
you said you would fall out of a window
to make my laugh.
love me instead"
i am told that i have a smile so warm but eyes so sad and cold. he keeps on saying "georgia, would you smile if i fell out of the window? If i did something funny?"
i didnt sign it.. i think he would know who it was from. should i sign it anyway? and how should i give it to him? just hand it over, or place it on his desk?

Answer 1

Well, there are a number of ways you can deliver the message, but I would do it in secret, like slipping it into his locker or books when he wasn't looking. NOW....You want this guy BAD, right? OK...time to get dirty. Amanda is now the enemy, and you are going to have to start fighting for what you want.

#1 Start spending as much time as you can with him

#2 Try to find out what factors he likes about her, and incorporate them into yourself.

#3 (This is the daring part) Just walk up to him one day and say "I want you...I'll treat you better than any other girl you can imagine. I'm not into playing bullshit games like other girls, and I'm not a bit.ch. Otherwise, I wouldn't even be here telling you this. I'm honest and straightforward, and available. I await your answer."

If that doesn't get his blood racing, he must be dead.
But, you should still be prepared for the letdown if he turns you down. There's just no predicting these things 100%....sorry darlin.

Good luck

Jim