My gf is having another man who is interested in her, ...he is calling all the time, chat with her very often, invite her over ...My gf told me all those things ...But yet she said she loves me ....But she didn't seriously told the other guy that she has a bf, and let him take advantage ...Although I know about this situation, I am staying calm and trying not to be jealous ..I am testing her to see if she really loves me ...We have a some religious conflict in our relationship, but I think we both each other ..I am trying not to be jealous, because I can't fight for her , because I cannot fight religious and jealousy problems at the same time ...But what do you think of that situation ...she said she appreciates the guy , but not in love with me ..Is it a sign that she wants to dump me ..? or that she is not in love anymore ..? and I am trying not to be jealous about that ...is it a good reaction from me or should I react on that ?
2006-10-09 13:15:42 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to correct something there ..."She said she appreciates the guy , but not in love with him .."
2006-10-09 13:28:42 · update #1
Uhm so she says she loves and then she doesnt?
Sounds like confusion to me...and you...your a pushover shes going to keep seeing this other guy unless you react....I mean wouldnt you think it would be ok for you to see other people if she didnt react on it?
2006-10-09 13:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ellenaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being really disrespectful to you and selfish at the same time. I know you want to make the right decisions, but right now don't talk to her, get some space b/c she is in control of the situation. She really is testing your limits and that's not right. She is testing the guy out and has you as a fallback. Seriously get out of this situation or at least get some space, b/c this is very unhealthy for you.
2006-10-09 20:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't she exactly tell the guy she has a boyfriend?? Because she doesn't want him to know. No, don't react with jealousy, --don't react at all. Let her go on her merry way, she is playing games with you and with him. Kinda to see who has the better deal. Move on...
2006-10-09 20:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to be jealous. and if she told u she appreacites that guy means she already in love with him...so u have 2 choises now either u stop her to meet the guy anymore or wait for the break up....
2006-10-09 20:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by chow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants both of you at the same time i say go for it you mite like it
2006-10-09 20:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋