well my very best friend and i aren't so close anymore and i don't know what to do...i mean she always uses me for my things and i don't know wat to do anymore..i still see her as a good friend but other people say don't trust her...WHAT DO I DO? HELP??
2006-10-09 13:03:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If what you say about this person is true, you never had a best friend. A real friend would never use you or hurt you so take the advice you're receiving from those who say don't trust her. Find some new friends who care about you and respect you, but make sure you also care about them and respect you.
2006-10-09 13:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop thinking of her as your best friend. Look at her as just a person and figure out would you take that from anyone. She is supposted to treat you better if she is your bestfriend. Spend some time away from her so you can get a clearer thought on the situation and come back with better ideas on how to deal with her.
2006-10-09 20:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to express your concerns to her/him and try to work through things. If this doesnt work you might consider trying to search for other people to rely on because they may not be as loyal as friends should be. True friends are hard to come by so be patient, make sure you have faith in yourself, and just because your friends with her/him does not give them the right to use you or your things. DONT be a doormat.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-09 20:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by blondeokie73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first has she said something rude to you or about you she says she is you aquatint to your face but tells every little secrete behind you .
second do these people already hate her and never really like her than don`t listen to them not if they don`t have anything that has to do with her but you told this person the hole story and they know what you are as a person after or more days and still hate her then i would call it over .
(i want to be a sociologist someday )
2006-10-09 20:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by penguin_princez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dont give you a reason NOT to trust her I would not worry about it. I don't know how old you are but sometimes relationships just change and people move on and get other friends
2006-10-09 20:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about this kinda stuff, you're too young anyway to have a serious relationship with just a friend. Some friends last most dont, you'll learn that eventually.
2006-10-09 20:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by NOIZE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't give back to the friendship she's a big time user-- you have to give in order to get-- Look around for others who don't demand things for friendship
2006-10-09 20:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by roslynfritz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FRIENDS COME AND FRIENDS GO, FOR WHATEVER REASONS WE DON'T ALWAYS KNOW. SOMETIME IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON AND YOU CAN STILL SAY HI AND STUFF YOUR JUST NOT AS CLOSE AS YOU USED TO BE.
2006-10-09 20:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOST OF THE TIMES THE PEOPLE THAT WE HAVE AROUND SEE THE THINGS WITH MORE CLARITY, DO WHAT OTHERS SAID, DONT TRUST IN HER
2006-10-09 20:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt get it. she used or stuffs or she's bn using u??
whtevr it is, if othr ppl told u not to trust her, wel its time for u to find out the truth
dnt jz judge her by wht ppl said
ask her nicely or.. figure it out on ur own!
2006-10-09 20:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by supersue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋