Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

I was using my boyfriends phone, & under recently usedd numbers there was some girl who I hadnt heard of. So naturally I got a bit concerned, & I know I shouldn't have looked through his phone, it was the wrong thing to do, but I found some messages under sent items.

I found about a message saying wana come to the beach tomorrow to 2 or 3 different girls, guys too... I knew he & a few guyys went to the beach 4 the day on satuday, he said it was a boys day. I heard from someone else that the girls didnt go in the end but still, not good enough. Boys day my a**.

I feel bad for invading his privacy, but thats not the issue, & I suppose that's nothing in comparison do I confront him about this, I know I have too, rather p**sed of!! How do I go about it? What would you do?

2006-10-08 19:08:54 · 11 answers · asked by idk 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I (20 years old) were very much in love when we got married and I told him that the ring wasnt the most important thing. He didnt have the money for a nice wedding ring so I ended up with a plain white gold band from Walmart to match his. It was lost at the beach 5 months ago.
For our first year anniversiry coming up on the 31 of October I told him I want a Nice Ring.. I am going to give him 200 dollars from our savings and hes going to go with my father to pawn shops and look for something pretty. But am I being selfish to ask for a new ring? I just feel like Im unmarried without one, but I lost it..Should I just get the same one from Walmart to stay true to what I said in the beginning?

2006-10-08 19:08:11 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Although she was an ex, it seems like i'm more obsessed abt her than he does! I cannot endure the fact that she's beautiful, sweet and demure. She's done all the things i've always wanted to do and i cannot stand the idea that i'm probably walking on her shadow! i want to be more original so that the bf thinks i'm his best, even though i'm not his first. I keep comparing to her and that sucks cuz both of us have totally different goals in life. i've only met her once and she said a physical comment abt my bf that just kills me becuz it brings home the fact tt she was his first gf! how do i stop comparing myself to her so that i don't hurt this relationship? My bf feels that i'm damaging myself this senseless way. anyone with similar success stories of getting over the dreaded e-x?

2006-10-08 19:07:05 · 8 answers · asked by raindrops 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

today i was confronted by my sisiter in law about me taking her sandal yesterday.she says she is emberrased about it but she is also flattered.she says her sandals smell but thats what i like,she also knows i sniff her panties do you think she will burn me?

2006-10-08 19:07:04 · 6 answers · asked by lachicano213 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help me and that too elaborately.

2006-10-08 19:06:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm a guy i'm not gay!

I like this girl and i wanna start doing things together and maybe ask her out and i'm afraid she wont wanna be my gf becouse she doesnt like me or something

is there a way i can know for sure before i ask her?

2006-10-08 19:05:12 · 7 answers · asked by bubba 1 in Singles & Dating

Durring masturbation ,do you use your toys or your fingers?I mean im a guy that obviously uses my hand,but if you use your fingers and your all alone ,have you tasted your fingers? I think that is so hot when a lady does that.No i'm not a child whith a perverted question!!!....360 page get to see ya mabye.69TS

2006-10-08 19:04:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some guy at work is talking mad shyt about me ...tho hes blaming some guy i know whos down with me , now should i go out and tell my bosses what hes been saying and get him in trouble or should i talk to him about these rumors ?

2006-10-08 19:03:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well we were at a party n he started talking to me i tought he was relly cute. he goes to my school..... but he was drunk is he goin to remember me?

2006-10-08 19:03:46 · 8 answers · asked by cristina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 19:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by shahira a 1 in Friends

I have been having a long distance relationship for 3 years, the first year was great and it passed away too fast, the second past while we were flying to each other and the third im just getting so sick of always travelling and it takes me minimum 10 hours one way in plane...since i met some nice people over here i just might want to get a second one, is it ok? I dont want to break up because i love the person and i would want to marry with the person but time wise and financially the relationship is killing me slowly...help!

2006-10-08 19:01:51 · 22 answers · asked by Luna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known my bestfriend Jay for 2 years and 2 months and NEVER had feelings for him. I always knew he was a great guy and hilarious, but yesterday it clicked! I looked at him and I never ever felt that way! Now i've been thinking about him all last night and all of today, lol. Sorry i'm in that smiley giddy faze! lol. Has that ever happen to you?

2006-10-08 19:00:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dude at work i like my friend, tho today he quits and i wasnt able to talk to him ...one of my other co workers tells me what happened and then i told him i liked the guy that quit later on when i left , will the one who told me what happened tells one of my friends that the guy i liked said he doesnt like me cause im ugly and fat tho days b4 this guy says something like "oh ____ i know u have a crush on my cause i might have one on u too" im lost and confuse someone help me

2006-10-08 18:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sup... guys... i need you help... i think im in love with my friend and shes only 14 yrs. old... im 17 yrs. old... is that ok for a relationship???

2006-10-08 18:58:20 · 10 answers · asked by christopherjohn3 1 in Friends

wife wants another seperation. We have been married 10 years - been seperated 2 times ( both her idea... 1st time she found a BF online before the seperation). I've told her we can work thru anything but if she leaves this time I will file for a divorce. I'm 43 , own my own buisness, don't womanize or abuse her. To me she is the light of my life but she cannot ever say anything nice. She wants to work on things while we are seperated but I've had enough of this. What do you think?

2006-10-08 18:58:11 · 23 answers · asked by mgv11sport 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What I'm looking in a relationship
What was the meaning of her questions?
She is my friend I invited her to a concert a week ago and I sent her an email saying .."thank you for her company".
Now she sent me a reply and she says she is thankful I invited her, that I thought about her and that I always have nice details for her, Also that I make her laugh and she says I'm funny.
And then she asked me that.
I'm a little confused. We are good friends, we have been going out 3 times.
But she has a boyfriend.
Is she interested in me? I like her a lot

2006-10-08 18:58:09 · 6 answers · asked by Space Rocket 2 in Friends

i love a girl and she love me but there is things in her i would like to change in her like her clothes but she refues she said u love me like i am,so i said i respect your destion but in my self i want her to change what can i do???

2006-10-08 18:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by lover boy 2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok what is up with u going out with skinny skinny skinny why dont u date a fat girl like take me for instance im pretty but i hate my self but guys dont like me but i have a great personality and i am fun to be with i am really nice but bad at some times why dont u dat fat girls

2006-10-08 18:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend she is 20 and im 16 theres not one thing that i dont like about her but the age is way off to most pepol but i do love her and she loves me i know this cauls she told me was i in the roung when i kissed her or was it ok plez tell me and her mom dosnt like me

2006-10-08 18:55:42 · 14 answers · asked by cwk16wv 1 in Singles & Dating

See if i'm hanging out with a female friend or just talking to a female or just INNOCENTLY flirting with another girl, the girlfriend first thinks "omg he is soo cheating on me" why, why, why? i don't understand please explain the female brain. i would like a woman's perspective

2006-10-08 18:55:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ohh its just so horrible~~~it degrades you, makes you feel like everything is out to get you, and makes you turn in bed at night, twice every second...ohh what if she say no~~~i can never let her go. No...i wont ask till i find a way to deal with this...

2006-10-08 18:55:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My new BF loves having a woman on top during sex. He is begging me to do it. I am pretty self conscious and I guess I've never really done it because I am not sure what I am doing. I am comfortable with all other positions except this one. Some advice please......

2006-10-08 18:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by Sydney'sMommy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 18:54:29 · 20 answers · asked by dorothy c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for bridesmaid not to receive any part of "goodluck" money given to one of the other bridesmaid who opened the door for the groom? There were 8 bridesmaids.

2006-10-08 18:52:53 · 8 answers · asked by MyQute 3 in Weddings

I asked a similar ? last week and I did not provide any more details, Well I found my Jr high sweetheart in another state, it has been about 20 years since I have seen her..She is engaged to a real jerk that is making her work three jobs, I have told her to a point how I feel about her and she doesnt seem to be very responsive, I know if I had her, she would not have to work unless she wanted to, I own my own business that is successful..I would like to travel to her city to visit on a lunch date or dinner but she is very hesitant..All I want is for me and her to meet face to face again and just sit down and talk, she is attracted to me as I am to her..I think that she may have second thoughts about marrying this guy if she can just get to know me again...I dont want to keep pestering her about this but I dont want to give up on her yet, I have wanted her for so many years and I feel like there is one last hope, what advice, if any do you have for me?

2006-10-08 18:52:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my gf and i just had sex, but the only condoms i had were the ones that make your penis numb so u dont *** too soon, FYI seriously a friend gave them to me he only last like 5 seconds so he uses them lol lol, but i obviously didnt know this till half-way threw but.....I DONT HAVE THAT PROBLEM!!!!! so it make my thing numb as can be and she came way before i did and she made me stop because it wore her out and i still couldnt *** and "its" still numb :( my question is sense i never came am i still a virgin or not????

2006-10-08 18:51:43 · 18 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel guilty but its his fault that he is not here with me.

2006-10-08 18:51:07 · 39 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

I have read a lot of replies to my inquiry and I am beginning to feel guilty. Perhaps I am being too hard on my friend. After all she only asked me to do her pedicure and give her a foot massage.

I realize everyone is upset and it certainly was humiliating, but wouldn't you do the same thing if asked or told to do it. It is just a foot massage.

2006-10-08 18:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-08 18:50:53 · 12 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

I was over his house last night and we were watching TV. I looked over at him and all of a sudden I realized that I had different kinds of feelings for him. Should I tell him or just continue to be good friends?

2006-10-08 18:49:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating