My new BF loves having a woman on top during sex. He is begging me to do it. I am pretty self conscious and I guess I've never really done it because I am not sure what I am doing. I am comfortable with all other positions except this one. Some advice please......
2006-10-08 18:54:57 · 7 answers · asked by Sydney'sMommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Observe what he does when he is on top of you. You just need to do the same thing - more or less.
1) Put your legs on both sides of his thighs and over - but just a little behind - his groin.
2) Insert him slowly into you. You might feel that he is much bigger (than what he usually feels) inside you; bcoz this is a position for deep penetration. So, take him slowly inch by inch into you.
3) Then you can either pump him up&down or in a little rocking (forward & backward) motion - you will find that the latter motion give you (the lady) more pleasure.
4) Thats it. Once you are into the motion, ride him to his (and yours) heart's delight.
Good Luck.
2006-10-08 20:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by life_is_rhythm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to relax. Don't get so caught up in the mechanics of having sex, that you forget to enjoy and have fun...
A Woman's body is sensual and sexy..any size and shape...
If you've already been together and he has seen you many times, why would you be self conscious about being on top....to him it's just another position that allows him to see the facial expressions and your breasts during a very erotic moment...it probably turns him on more at the thought of seeing the faces of pleasure you make along with seeing your breasts and touching them..better yet, touch them yourself..give him a show!!!
2006-10-08 19:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by TexasKitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jen
I guess it's more about indulging in a special bonding experience. No need to feel overly self conscience about anything unless you got a camera somewhere.
Let it come naturally and enjoy the moment, and the guy you're with.
Dat said, if being on top is not your cup of tea, you shouldn't feel a need to do it... the closing of one door opens another. You both can try other new things you're both comfy with.
2006-10-08 19:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your that self conscious, try facing his feet, with your feet tucked under his legs. It is sort of a cross between doggy and woman on top. Just move slow, and make sure he knows who is boss.
2006-10-08 19:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be that self conscious, just make sure the lighting is dim. but on the other hand if you are willing to give yourself to this person shouldn't they like you for who you are??? the answer is yes just to let you know.
2006-10-08 18:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by reyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ride it! Its fun being on the top moving up and down slowly on him. It drive a guy wild!
2006-10-08 19:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its great having the woman on top
2006-10-08 19:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋