2006-10-08 18:54:29 · 20 answers · asked by dorothy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he should or he aint a man
2006-10-08 18:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by rx8 slotcar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is NOT always expected on the first or second or even third date. If the man does not respect the answer, "no" then why would you want to be with him? Someone who truly is interested in you and cares about you, will, indeed respect you and be willing to wait. After all, why would you give up something so precious as your virginity to a person you hardly know? The act of making love should be very special and for the right person. Don't give it out until you KNOW HE is the one!
2006-10-09 01:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Royallady1947 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always want sex, doesn't matter. No, he won't respect a girl who has sex with him on the first date. Don't expect the relationship to last. Develop a relationship first, interests, doing and going places, then IF and when the sex happens, that's WONDERFUL
2006-10-09 01:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will take his sexual urges and run with them. sex is always expected...be it now or later. Men are very complex. If the man truly respected you and also him self, he wouldn't expect to happen on the first date, he would have enough patience and understanding. men are not the only ones who want sex on the first date...think about it! as far as a man respecting you if the answer is no...forget about it!! he should have enough respect for himself and for you whatever the answer is! a man will only respect you if you respect yourself. think about it!!
2006-10-09 02:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First date?? If the men you date are expecting it on the first date, you might want to reconsider where/how you are meeting men. Most men would not respect a woman who has sex with them on the first date.
2006-10-09 01:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy expects sex on the first date...don't date him.
Where would any human think that is ok? SEx is not like a handshake. It is a commitment. Needs to be expressed in a loving situation....not on a first meeting.
I fear the younger generation has made sex so casual that it will lose it's wonder
2006-10-09 02:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know it was expected on the first date - perhaps you're dating the wrong guys? And there is no choice whether to respect your answer or not - you have said no and that's the end of it.
2006-10-09 01:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by jbabee22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of jerks have you been dating? I wouldn't expect sex on the first date. I'd expect sex around the time she says "I love you."
2006-10-09 02:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sex ISN'T expected on the first date. So he'd BETTER respect you when you decline.
2006-10-09 02:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by flipthecoin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not always expected on the first date. and if the man does expect it and you say no, if he gets all angry and stuff lkike that then maybe he is just after sex and isn't really interested in you as a person.
2006-10-09 01:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating someone that is expecting it on the 1st date, that is the only reason he is on the date, because he knows it will probably be his last. Don't give in to loosers you are worth more than that.
2006-10-09 01:57:12 · answer #11 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋