i cheated on my boyfriend who is in jail. should i tell him?

Question

i feel guilty but its his fault that he is not here with me.

Answer 1

HE!_!_ .......no dont tell!
You took care of an urge that he should of been there to handle for you............(Pigs we get what pigs deserve!).......he got himself in jail so why should you serve his sentence with him? If he did'nt want you to screw around,he should keep himself in a position to make sure that it wont happen.

Answer 2

it may be his fault that he is not there with you. but it is NOT his fault that you cheated on him. First of all you should not tell him while he is in jail because jail is bad enough anyway without having that on your mind. Second of all, you need to think about how much you really care for him. It doesnt sound like he is the one you want to be with long term if you are cheating. If you are going to do this, it would be best for him, you, and anyone else involved to break up with him.

Answer 3

In my opinion, you should tell him. I beleieve people deserve to know the truth, no matter what. But you should do this while he is in jail, that way you will know whether or not you will have a boyfriend when he gets out, and avoid any messy reactions. And dont ever blame anyone else for something you did, you are always responsible for what is in your life.

Answer 4

first of all, how long is your bf gonna be in jail? this relationship may be over anyway and there's nothin u or him can do about it. but to answer your question..i think that if he is getting out in the NEAR future and yall are still together and truly love eachother than you should be honest w/him and give him the choice of accepting that you had a weak moment. i ALSO think that if he's gonna be there for a while..then u need to forget about him and MOVE ON girl! dont waste your days for a man who's not there.

Answer 5

I can understand that you may be lonely and blame him for not being there with you.

BUT, you should come clean with him. If you can't stand through the time apart while he's in jail, you should tell him that you need something physical.....tangible...and that it is just putting you in a place where you feel alone when you need someone.

Honesty is the best policy..I think.

Good Luck.

Answer 6

There is two ways to this you can be honest and tell him that you are sorry but you cant be waiting for long because I have a life. But if that not a fact be honest ans tell him the truth look him in his eyes. Becuase everybody deserves the truth.

Answer 7

If there is no possibility of him ever finding out, NO. Don't worry about unloading your guilt, you will just make him feel really hurt. Keep it to yourself and if you are looking for someone else, think about breaking it off with him. There really is no easy way to do that but you need to be tough with this.

Answer 8

How likely is it that he will find out you had been unfaithful? If it's not likely, then don't hurt him by telling him. If he's going to find out sooner or later, better prepare him for it.

Just how much do you love him? Perhaps you weren't really in love with him, just wanted some companionship? I suggest you sort out your feelings first.

Answer 9

Hey uh, by the way, while you were staring at jack off mags and sitting behind bars most of day, I cheated on you and thats ok right, o.k....lets talk about you now.

Answer 10

Um, depends onwhat hes in jail for. If he's in jail for weighing 80 pounds and being nerdy, then ok. Otherwise, I thinks its best for everyone involved if you keep your yap shut.