See if i'm hanging out with a female friend or just talking to a female or just INNOCENTLY flirting with another girl, the girlfriend first thinks "omg he is soo cheating on me" why, why, why? i don't understand please explain the female brain. i would like a woman's perspective
2006-10-08 18:55:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so what would u say if your gf was doing the same - hanging out with another man, flirting with him? if u tell me u won't feel anything is wrong with it it means u don't have any feelings towards her and she is not your gf but nothing but f'u'c'k'i'n'g buddy. and cheating isn't necesserelly having an intercourse. cheating is doing smth behind your partner's back, whatever it is. i wouldn't call whatever u re doing is cheating but i wouldn't be pleased if my partner were doing the same u do.it is being not loyal to your woman
2006-10-08 19:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hanging out with a female friend is one thing~it's innocent enough, and she should be okay with that. But innocent flirting is only innocent if everyone involved knows it's not going anywhere. Some females are insecure & to them flirting, innocent or otherwise is not something they want they boyfriends doing in case a girl flirts back~seriously. If you know it freaks her out, maybe consider not doing it anymore because believe me, in the end it will cause Serious problems~is it worth it?
2006-10-09 02:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are flirting with other girls and she is insecure about it. She thinks that you flirting means you are looking for other girls. Her insecurity means that she could be a little bit overprotective. You need to talk to her and tell her that you aren't wanting to dump her. She may have had experience where one of her former boyfriends cheated on her and she's looking out for the signs that you're displaying saying you are, even if you aren't. You may see your flirting as being innocent, but she doesn't.
2006-10-09 02:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because more then likely she has been cheated on before and that were the sings from the man or that cheated on her and also there no such thing as innocently flirting in a girls eyes you are either doing it or not there no innocently in it.
2006-10-09 02:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by free2style1026 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are paying more attention to ANY other girl , then your girlfriend has reason to believe you aren't satisfied with your relationship. There is no such thing as "innocent" flirting -- it is just flirting.......and if my man loves and respects me he doesn't need to waste MY time by flirting with someone else. It doesn't make me jealous or make me assume he is cheating it just makes me realize that he is spending his time and efforts on some other girl. Flirt with your own girl and just be friendly to the others, if she can't hang , then you are with the wrong girl.
2006-10-09 02:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are with someone who is insecure with herself therefore it webs right through all aspects of her life, including you. It's not really a female issue. Men too are like that at times so you really can't categorise. All in all, it comes down to the individual and what may have happened in the past that triggers such reaction. I'm not even going to go into the nitty grittys of our psyche so will leave it at that... Does this answer your Q?
2006-10-09 02:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are naturally self absorbed and territorial whether like it or not, you my friend are her property!! I think that way of my fiance but I also know how badly he wants me and I don't get insecure when he's talking to his home girls on the phone because I know what kind of girls he likes and they are definitely not it! You on the other hand are stupid for even giving anyone else attention while your girl is around, that's just disrespectful! My fiance always makes me his #1 when we are in public as a matter of fact he almost flaunts me! And when he goes out with his boys I'm not worried about him sleeping around but we don't get over that until we have some reassurance in OUR man, you get it, show her you are not like that show her she is #1 when you're out together and maybe she'll stop accusing you of cheating!!! Remember you are her property and her territory anyone she thinks is challenging that or treading on her territory will be dealt with accordingly!!! Be careful!! We're just jealous and can't help ourselves! Sorry
2006-10-09 02:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we women hate compettion and we also like to think that we are all you will ever need...for anything so we feel threatened by that the fact the you are "innocently flirting" with another girl like you said. We look at that as you looking for possible replacements and that's all bad!
2006-10-09 02:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Majesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically its insecurity...all females at some time during a relationship feel as though they are inadequate and that their partner won't find what they are looking for in a girl in them...
another thing is that girls are extremely territorial. They have a view that certain things belong to them and certain things belong to others, so its very territorial...another thing is that its very competitive. some girl's do like to stir up trouble so they deliberately start talking to you or flirting with you knowing that you have no clue that it isn't at all innocent...your girl then hones into this with her radar and thus ends up getting angry and her insecurity increases.
Hope that helps!
2006-10-09 02:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by randa_da_panda1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh because first of all you messed up bc you're flirting with other girls right in front of her. If she could trust you to not be all up on another female's jock then she could trust you alone with them. You need to either learn how to respect the girlfriend that you have now or get one that you will respect.. because that is a huge sign of disrespect to flirt in front of your gf with another girl.
2006-10-09 02:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by b. radd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋