some guy at work is talking mad shyt about me ...tho hes blaming some guy i know whos down with me , now should i go out and tell my bosses what hes been saying and get him in trouble or should i talk to him about these rumors ?
2006-10-08 19:03:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ooh, that's a toughie. You don't really want to get your bosses involved unless it's affecting your work. Talking s@#$ is one thing, harrassment is another. Talk to him first, then if you feel you need to, talk to your bosses. But thoroughly think it through before you do anything you might regret. Good Luck
2006-10-08 19:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ur about to do is NOT revenge, but doing what's right. If u tell the bosses what hes doing, it serves him right. But of course, really find out first what he's trying to say... if he sticks to his word about saying those bad things about u, maybe its time u should do something about it and tell on him.
2006-10-08 19:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by joe_logs_a_co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No revenge, the revenge comes from holding yr head high, walk like you got the best-kept secret, and the secret is YOU. Reach to a higher-Plane. Just dimiss it- you are BETTER than THAT!
2006-10-08 19:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge isnt worth it, just talk to the guy and let karma do the rest, he'll get his one day
2006-10-08 19:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by shaznz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time...no.
Best revenge is moving on and forgetting about that which tries to bring you down with it.
2006-10-08 19:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always talk to that person before and just telling the boss is a bit childish way so try to resolve it with him
2006-10-08 19:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well telling your bosses is like crying to mommy. come at his neck, but if you do it at work, be professional, if off grounds...its no holds bar
2006-10-08 19:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do both. and revehge is worth doing it, if it is clever revenge. it will give u satisfaction
2006-10-08 19:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience is a virtue!!!!! not today not tomorrow and not next week but best believe i will get mine!!!! yes confront him with your friend the one he's blaming LOL
2006-10-08 20:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes revenge feels good, sometimes it doesnt. i felt so guilty after i tried to kill my brothers lizard. in the end, does your punishment fit his crime?
2006-10-08 19:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by kel§ey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋