I was over his house last night and we were watching TV. I looked over at him and all of a sudden I realized that I had different kinds of feelings for him. Should I tell him or just continue to be good friends?
2006-10-08 18:49:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you like him. No harm in that and your relationship would be a great one since you were both friends first.
If either of you are in other relationships, than keep your feelings to yourself.
2006-10-08 18:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ed A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally believe that you should wait a little so that you can figure out how strongly you feel for him and whether or not its just an infatuation, something that is quite common when you have close friend/s of the opposite sex...if you find that what you feel for him is more than just a crush or a little attraction, then you have to determine whether or not you're prepared to take the next step. do you really want to jeopardise your friendship in the long term if:
a)he doesn't feel the same way?
b)He likes you as well, the two of you go out, but then things don't work?
hope that helps! good luck
2006-10-08 18:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by randa_da_panda1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you are in touch with your feelings. Sometimes remaining friends is better than becoming lovers. Find out how he feels. I am sure that you are very close with him on a friendship level and that you know almost everything about each other. Answer this- would you feel jealous if he had a girlfriend? what made you see him differently?? tell him how you are feeling. You might be surprised!
2006-10-08 18:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be good friends. It could be hormones or it could just be you realising you love him, but in a different way. I love all of my friends, possibly more than my boyfriend, but in a way where they mean the world to me and I do not want to sleep with them! If feelings grow, then maybe see how he feels and then tell him but not if it was just a thing where you looked at him and went "Hmmm... he really is amazing. I think I love him."
2006-10-08 18:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to rush. You can bet your bottom dollar he has thought of it too. Continue to enjoy the friendship, and delight in getting to know each other better. You don't need to go rush and say I like you and neither does he. If the feeling is mutual, take your time so as to feel each and every spark that transmit from each other.
2006-10-08 19:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him. As I am boy I know what I think about the girls. Though I not have feelings for girls as others but I know about it. Everyone falls in love and if you will think about it so much then what you will do in the coming days? So my suggestion is to tell him the truth. Don't do the flirting as it may become dangerous to you.
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2006-10-08 19:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should tell him and then see how he feels and go from there. You don't want to just let your feelings for him build up inside you and drive you crazy and you don't want to try to put moves on him and the feelings are not mutural. So I think this deserves a good talking out.
2006-10-08 18:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Majesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean by best friend? He's not yr best girlfriend's boyfriend? If he is a very good friend, and u want to see if he wants to take it further.....see if he's interested. Ask him if he's attracted to u sexually. His answer will tell you. If not, you still have a very close friend, so, what's wrong with having a GOOD Male FRiend?
2006-10-08 18:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he has the same feelings as you first. but i think you should just stay friends with him because if you date him and things don't work out it will make your friendship in the future very awkward. i know this from experience. i am still friend with the guy but not like we used to be and sometimes i wish we hadn't dated. but it's your decision and i hope you make the right one. good luck.
2006-10-08 18:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-08 18:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋