Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

We just had a baby and he promised before I had the baby that he would try and get a better job so that I can stay at home with her. That didn't happen. He hardly tried and prefers playing his computer games more. Now I have to go back to work, and because I make more than he does, he gets to stay at home with her. I'm very resentful. He's not as motivated as me and I feel he hardly steps up to the plate.

2006-10-06 16:18:02 · 19 answers · asked by regrettfullyso 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im curious, if any girls in anyway can some how like or fall for a shy kinda boy.

2006-10-06 16:17:31 · 6 answers · asked by ThemusicalArtist 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 16:17:16 · 2 answers · asked by dietaryaid_dietaryaid 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was on the PE field and this highschool chick was running around and she turned and looked at me and then she smiled. What does this mean?

2006-10-06 16:17:05 · 28 answers · asked by Nathan 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this guy in my class, and hes really cute, and nice. i really LOVE him. we email/IM eachother, but i dont know how to tell him that i like him. he doesnt care much for me... if i told him i liked him, hes freak, then commit suicide. (not litterally) i cheer for him at his soccer games, but that doesnt seem to help. we joke around with eachother. i dont know how ot tell him. HELP!!!!
ive tried putting notes in his locker. he doesnt read them. i try just giving them to him. he just puts them in the trash. and if i saked him to hang/go out w/ him hed freak, commit suicide,(not litterally) then tell the world and make me the laughing stock of the school! i dont want him to do that!!!1
his best friend is a wierd squealer so i wont tell him. and the guys always sorta depressed in a wierd kind of way

2006-10-06 16:16:09 · 3 answers · asked by boys <3 me 2 in Friends

I told my best friend about the guy that I liked because I tell my best friend almost everything. And I told him that I didn't think I had a chance with him. I'm pretty, though. Just so you guys know that that's not what I mean when I said "i didn't stand a chance" with the guy. Well I told my best friend and I said, "but I'm not pretty enough" and my best friend was like "you're pretty" and I was like "but I'm not like pretty, pretty" What I meant was pretty enough for the guy I like. And he said "Yes you are..you're pretty,pretty,pretty,pretty...I'm looking at you right now" and I got really shy because he was staring at me so I just looked down. And then this one day, he told me "you're beautiful with, or without make up...in a friendly way"...
but then he had confessed to me during the summer that he liked me when we first met but i was so sure that he didn't like me anymore since it had been so long and we became such good friends ...how would you guys take comments like these?

2006-10-06 16:15:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and he just denies it.He is in the Army,been away for 5 months,told me he wanted a divorce while he was away,came back to me and the kids,(4 of them),on 9-18-06,got an email w/him and another woman in a picture,will not let me near his cell phone,getting calls and text msgs,overheard a conversation where he called someone sweetie and told her to call him the next day. Didn't want to be physical w/ me when he first got back,have since been together,says he doesn't know what he wants - to stay married,ect. He is also deploying to Iraq for a year in mid to late October. I do not know what to do,I love him,but I do not know whether to hope he has reality slap him in the face in Iraq and he faces what he is going to lose,or just hope that this just burns itself out. Why not just admit to screwing around and take it as the golden ticket to get out of the marriage? Why would he still be here? Please help!!!

2006-10-06 16:15:21 · 14 answers · asked by jah92368 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were able to repeat the relationship do you feel you could have done something differently to have made it into a positive experience?

2006-10-06 16:14:10 · 12 answers · asked by PJ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a personals ad that is specific about what I want and what really don't like. I have left response to some good looking guys only to get no response back from them. It seems every guy that leaves me a message is a rough looking red neck type with a beard (which I specify I dont like). They all like to hunt and ride motorcycles. I am a girly type woman who doesn't own a pair of jeans and like to go places where you can dress half decent. I like sophisicated men but seem to only hear from these other types. I come in contact everyday with attractive business men who come into the store where I work but most of them have wedding rings on. Is that all that is left is these bearded hunting and fishing hicks? I could like them as a friend but there just isn't any physical attraction there for me.

2006-10-06 16:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 16:12:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

appropriate please?!

2006-10-06 16:11:31 · 14 answers · asked by Kira 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl at school named Britney(new girl in my Computer Tech Class,boring class) in my 5 th period class. Today i just realized how hot she is,she ended up sitting by me because her computer was bugging out so Ms.E moved her by my computer. We took at test then had time to do what ever the heck we want. So then she checked her email,showed me some pictures of her,and i was like WOW!,the pictures were sooooooooooo hot,she took a pictures of her breasts(with a shirt on u pervert!),and i was like who is that?,She was like "That's me",then i looked and surely it was. Then she took a hot picture were she was laying on the couch in a dress,that was a major turn on for me,she's soooooooooo hot,i want her real bad right about now. We got good chemistry together,no problem talking to her,everything flows smoothly with us,i want her to be my girlfriend. One issue-Don't know how to approach her,help me out with this,give me some ways to approach her

2006-10-06 16:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by Ramon O 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you feel that a woman should or should not take her husbands last name when she marries him? Why or why not?

2006-10-06 16:08:50 · 9 answers · asked by 2 'til Midnight 3 in Marriage & Divorce

SUCKERPUNCHED IN THE GUT TOTALLY UNEXPECTED WHEN YOUR GUT WAS COMPLETLY RELAXED AND SOFT? if yes :when,by who, did it knock the wind outta you and why did he or she punch you in the gut?

2006-10-06 16:07:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Oh please help?
I like this boy i talk to him alot and he talks back so were like friends but i dont know if he likes me.How can i tell he likes me?Should i ask him?Or should i say i like him?And if i do tell him he might not want to talk to me or hang out.

He talks to me and we hang out alot.We talk a whole lot too.I think thats called flirting.I REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM!!!!!

2006-10-06 16:07:47 · 7 answers · asked by LilMissPriss 1 in Singles & Dating

Why don't I feel like a slut? Why don't I feel this overwhelming guilt that everyone talks about? I mean I actually enjoyed it! Is that really unusual for a woman?

2006-10-06 16:06:43 · 16 answers · asked by sosickofred 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 16:06:33 · 8 answers · asked by sempron_mitch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and you hardly ever saw them before...???? and they THOUGHT they knew you better than they did....interesting...cuz really know one knows anyone....

2006-10-06 16:04:27 · 4 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 16:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean how can you be moderately affectionate?

What is the extreme for being affectionate?
What is the normal for being affectionate in a relationship?

Some girls when her bf starts to give them more attention, they felt suffocated...
So what's the normal?

2006-10-06 16:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

I really wanna help my friend cuz im like the only one he can trust at all... he has a gf but he is dumping her for me... cuz he cant trust her and she doesnt give him enough stabilty...
He has been though alot and so have i am so we get eachother... really well... but i am outgoing and fun and hyper cuz I hide the bad shiz but he shows it like he wont smile or laugh and he barely talks I mean to me he does but ppl in general NO WAY! but i will just go up to anyone and say hi... is it wrong to wanna help him not be as shy around ppl and wanna help him trust ppl more??<3

2006-10-06 15:58:57 · 3 answers · asked by Artificially Sweet 2 in Friends

2006-10-06 15:58:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so what should I do if i am going out with a guy who wants to do more with me but I dont feel comfortable doing these things with him? Should I do it? Or it not how do I say no?

2006-10-06 15:57:54 · 13 answers · asked by Emmmmmmmmm 2 in Singles & Dating

I was urinating when this lady just walks in the men’s room, looks at my penis and smiles. I put my penis back, and said “hey lady, this is the men’s room!”, she just ignores me and starts walking to the toilets. I stood in front of the toilets blocking her way and said “didn’t you listen? Ladies are not allowed…”, suddenly she knees me in the crotch!!! I was on the floor trying not to puke, she used the toilet and when she was walking away she said ”serves you right”!
The next day I told my friends and they said that women like to take too long in the toilets but then do not like to wait, and they think they have the right to use ours. I had to take anti-inflammatory pills and antibiotics for two weeks because my left epididymis got badly hurt. Can you imagine if they all decided to walk in the mens room?!

2006-10-06 15:57:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 15:56:47 · 4 answers · asked by Brock B 1 in Family

Ok so i meet this guy a couple months ago right and he said he liked me and we started to hang out after we slept together he said he didn't know what he wanted right so i got played.BUT now there is this new guy and he is really nice and sweet and i really like him but all think about is the fact that he might be talking to only to get in my pants...i am so confused that i am pissing everyone off talking about it. i think he likes me cus he im's me everyday and gets a little upset when i dont stop by his work and say hi. So my question is how do i know if a guy really wants to get to know me or if he just wants to sleep with me????? p.s. he is always asking for this pic of me that makes my boobs look big i wont send it cus i dont want him to think i am a ****...he still talks to me though>I cant ask him either cus i dont want him to think i am a freak if he is really into me:(

2006-10-06 15:56:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 15:56:04 · 14 answers · asked by Kindred 5 in Friends

im gay but everyone stereotypes.

2006-10-06 15:55:48 · 30 answers · asked by Edman 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 15:55:45 · 13 answers · asked by Gorjust 2 in Singles & Dating

My son has Conjestive heart failure and cannot work. He qualifies and is entitled to permanent disability. His live in girlfriend says it's disgracefull to collect disability. There is nothing preventing her from working. She just refuses to go to work because he is not working. He has been living off a small inheritance from his Grand mother and is running out of that money. I have been buying my Granddaughters clothes for 16 years. He now has forbidden me from that. He says I am teaching her to live above her means. I say he is teaches her not to work and do without. he says because I have more money than him and can buy her things, she will love me more than she loves him. I say if he is worried about that then collect his disability and make that no count girlfriend get off her lazy butt and go to work like the rest of the world. He is 40 yrs. old. She is 45yrs. old My Granddaughter is 16 and like all teens wants nice clothes for school.

2006-10-06 15:55:32 · 6 answers · asked by richg2524 2 in Family