i have this guy in my class, and hes really cute, and nice. i really LOVE him. we email/IM eachother, but i dont know how to tell him that i like him. he doesnt care much for me... if i told him i liked him, hes freak, then commit suicide. (not litterally) i cheer for him at his soccer games, but that doesnt seem to help. we joke around with eachother. i dont know how ot tell him. HELP!!!!
ive tried putting notes in his locker. he doesnt read them. i try just giving them to him. he just puts them in the trash. and if i saked him to hang/go out w/ him hed freak, commit suicide,(not litterally) then tell the world and make me the laughing stock of the school! i dont want him to do that!!!1
his best friend is a wierd squealer so i wont tell him. and the guys always sorta depressed in a wierd kind of way
2006-10-06 16:16:09 · 3 answers · asked by boys <3 me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is not ready for you, and for whatever you are telling to him, dont make yourself too available, he is sorting out issues in his life, he has lots of problems,afraid of commitment, and he knows he cant love you the way you want him to love you, it is so hard for him,dont rush him,you can love him from afar, dont push yourself too him,you are selling yourself short, men dont want that , just first be friends with him , you dont have to be in another level yet if he is not ready , what you are feeling cannot be insisted upon him, give him time and space, otherwise he will think you are a stalker or something , just let him know you would be there to help him when he has problems. but never never insist yourself to him ,,,give him time, space, dont rush him ,he is not feeling that way
and well he is not in to you, he does not like you at all, he puts your notes on the trash can , there could be a possibility that he is annoyed with you, come on give yourself a break, someone out there loves you more and beleives you are a gem, a gold, that guy does not and would not cherish you the way you want to be cherished, go find that someone who would love you for who you are and be happy , dont hurt yourself like that, that guy you were talking about does not deserve you, you deserve better!
2006-10-06 16:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try flirting and wearing more appealing clothes. Stop with the letters and cheering at his games he probably think you are a stalker. Get him to notice you, MAKE HIM WORK A LITTLE. I understand you like him, but just back off a little. Some guys like it when girls play hard to get. The flirting always works, just let him know you like him by your body language. Just be easy he will come around.
2006-10-06 23:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Beyonce2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear girl, he has told you over and over that he is not interested.
2006-10-07 02:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋